Sorry I dropped off the face of this Earth...but so much has happened within the past week that it actually feels like a lifetime.

I will try to write later tonight about what has been happening (some good, some bad), but in short, I will need guidance on writing the Plan B letter basically because WH has refused to leave the OW. He is going to counseling with me right now, and while we've only gone twice, the sessions have gone rather well and I can see the "crack" in WH. He's tormented, and trying to deal with many demons. But, the counselor has told me (outside of the session and on the phone) that the "line will be drawn in the sand" this Friday (our next appointment). She said it is time to tell WH that he cannot continue on the path of living with the OW while also in marriage counseling.

Any good Plan B letters floating around? My heart is too raw to even begin writing a letter.

Hi xHale,

Good to hear from you.

Your counselor sounds right on.

If you look up at the top of the page, you can click on "Q&A Columns" and then "Surviving Infidelity" and then "What are Plan A and Plan B?" I think you will find samples there.

Also, someone else will probably come along and give you other sample letters.

Just remember to make your letter as short and simple as possible. Some people write several-page tomes and nobody is going to wade through that.

If you post your letter here before you send it, you will get plenty of feedback and can feel confident when you do give it to WS.

Hang in there.
Mulan