Hey Wex, how many joint sessions have you had now? You are already into "issues". I don't think we will be there for 5-8 sessions. We are being taught ways to communicate, first. Personally, I think one could spend some time in each session to talk about some of the issues. The problem is that the marriage is still headed down the tubes while you learn to talk to each other.<P>We are using W's personal therapist, so I am keeping an eye out for favoritism and have spotted some. She is more critical of me than W for identical actions and statements. But I agreed on this person to get W there, so I cannot complain....<P>Keep me posted on how your joint sessions go...<P>You will get there, man, just keep trying...<P>Don't get me wrong, what I have seen so far impresses me and looks very good, but we really do need to discuss some of the problems and I don't think we will get there for a while. At least not before the divorce is final....<P>