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#1609711 03/10/06 08:11 AM
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Well well well....my husband was finally caught in a lie last night.

Let me backtrack and say that the night that my husband was seen with OW......he said that he saw her at the pool hall and that he got a ride with her to another bar. Then a friend of his drove him from that bar, back to this friends house and then he took my husband back to his truck at the pool hall.

Not so.

Last night when I was talking with my best friend, we were talking about the kids, yadda yadda yadda, and she says, oh BTW did you know that *Jenny* was at the club you and your hubby were at on Saturday night? ( we went to 2 different bars that night for a few drinks).....I said......ummmmmm no I did not.

So I get off the phone with my best friend, I'm sitting here for a while, and I mention to my husband, did you know Jenny was at the club? Why didn'y you introduce us? Immediately he cops an attitude, and proceeds to tell me, no, he did not know she was there. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> uh huh. Tell me another one.

So he proceeds to raise his voice and start yelling, saying that I should not be bringing that subject up, and that he did not do anything wrong the night he was spotted in the bar with her. So I say, well why was there pink glitter in your truck, and why were there 3 long hairs in your truck? (I dont have long brown hair) so he says......she drove my truck to the bar. I say, well the glitter and hairs were on the PASSENGER SIDE....and oh by the way, I thought she drove you to the bar in HER car, and Danny took you back to your truck, thats what you told me! BUSTED.

So I calmy sat here telling him that this is lie #1, and the rest will surface sooner or later.
Then he gets pissed and leaves for awhile, comes back home and goes to bed.

Cant wait for slip-up #2....... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Oh and let me add.....last night when he was screaming at me, he told me that this whole thing is all my fault. I'm not the one that strayed!

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ama06 #1609712 03/14/06 11:40 AM
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Cant wait for slip-up #2....... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Well, you don`t need to wait for slip up number 2. You already know exactly what is going on.

Why is your H out carousing around bars anyway? Does he have a drinking problem? Sounds like he might. I suggest you take at look and what the Harelys have to say about substance abuse in an M. Do a search on here for it. And look at the Welcome thread over on the Emotional Needs board for more information on this.

It is possible to recover from substance abuse and from A`s in an M but you have to take the correct steps in the correct order otherwise you are wasting precious time.


BS 42 WS 39 WH ONS 04/97 and EA ???-08/00 D-day for both 08/00 -Life is 10% what you make it...90% how you take it-

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