I just recieved a call from my DIL with the most incrediable story.

My DIL'S parents divorced when she was 3 years old. They were young and just had many problems including infedelity on the husbands part.

They went their seperate ways and in all of these years barely spoke to each other and lived states apart from each other.

They both have been remarried and divorced. But neither could ever seem to be happy in the other relationships.

So here we are 18 yrs later and both are single again. They have started talking again and are making plans to see each other at the end of this month.

They are working towards being together again. They have talked over the last month or so and realized they both made mistakes and have always loved each other. They are taking it slow but steady.

My DIL is so happy that her parents are trying to get together and making it work this time. So she says to me, see mom it can happen. It took a lot of years for my parents but they are trying again because they both realize what they had.

DIL said Mom I know dad will realzie one day that OW is not who he thinks she is and he will see you are his one true love and come back. I said maybe so but not sure I want it to be 18 years from now.

But my point to this is it can happen even years down the road. So for those of us who can keep the hope up and are willing to wait it can and does happen....

I wish my DIL'S parents the best and will pray for them....

I still find it amazing that after all of this time it happens...


Hurting


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06