Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Mar 2006
Posts: 2
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Mar 2006
Posts: 2 |
I'm so confused about all this. Since my H was the one who had the affair why do I have to try and win him back? Why does isn't he fighting to make Plan A work? I feel like I have to go to plan B because I'm too mad to go to Plan A alone! He has not seen the OW in over a year (not by his choose, he found her with OM and she turned around and pressed legal charges against him (because he's military and having an affair!!). Now he's back with me but I feel like after a year he's still in the withdrawal stage and I hate him even more for that. Someone help me. I want my marriage but not if I have to do all the work to win him back!! I feel like he owes me!!
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 17,837 |
He does owe you. Call Steve and get a recovery plan. You sound like u r stagnating and getting quite angry.
L.
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
354
guests, and
99
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,625
Posts2,323,524
Members72,035
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
