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Even my WH continued to call me a "good person".. He NEVER called me CRUEL.. I think it was CRUEL of you to call me CRUEL.. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Even my WH continued to call me a "good person".. He NEVER called me CRUEL.. I think it was CRUEL of you to call me CRUEL.. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Your husband's opinion of you is the basis of your self esteem? He had the affair not you..so why would his opinion hold such value? That's the same problem that eav has..her very existence hangs on her husband's opinions. A man who has treated her so horribly. It seems that you and eav are two peas in a pod. She needs to be encouraged to develop life skills that will make her feel good about herself and not obsess over what her husband is doing. Whether he comes back to her or not should not be the focus as much as finding happiness in spite of her situation now. Having hope accompanied with a rich life is healthy. I still don't understand why you consider eav's posts to be "fun." What kind of person considers the heartache and misery of another entertainment...in my book that is the epitome of CRUEL!
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Your husband's opinion of you is the basis of your self esteem? No Way! It's very clear you haven't been following my posts on the forum closely. Sorry, dear heart, YOU ARE WAY OFF BASE... You haven't heard? I AM A GODDESS!!!!..I AM WHAT I AM!!! JPH, What are you? Are you a man or a woman? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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It's very clear you haven't been following my posts on the forum closely. Sorry, dear heart, for if you had, you wouldn't have the need to ask my gender.
I just go by what I read...you had the need to share his opinion of you as if it were of great value...and frankly I didn't see why you felt it necessary.
Good bye, Mimi..no desire whatsoever to converse with you further...
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Goodbye, jph...
No. I admit. I haven't been following your posts. That's why I asked about you.
I guess I won't find out what you are since you don't choose to share.
I would say to you though TO PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH...
Try to find happiness..
You can't do that by being CRUEL to others...
I don't find Eav's posts to be fun, BTW...
She is a witty person..she is fun...
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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LOL...
"You haven't heard?
I AM A GODDESS!!!!..I AM WHAT I AM!!!"
I don't know what started that dialog, but I hope you're not taking it personally!!
Formerly G.G. and Jeb
Me: BS 50
She: xW 50
Jeb: Mini Schnauzer
Married: 29 yrs
Children: MM25, MM23
Plan B - 12/06/04
Divorced - 11/17/05
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