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well, after a few up and down months, last weekend she was late coming home from work. One hr. sat and two hrs. sun. She has erased her incoming and outgoing call logs.
And she lied to me about her sister,who is having an affair, and is driving one of his cars.I asked my wife where her sister got the car...she rolled over to face the wall and then proceeded to go into this elaberate detail of the car belonging to a woman friend...and on and on...
I almost busted out laughing.
My Question. Why would ANYONE erase their call logs other than hiding something???
I cant do this again.
Bill
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What is your gut telling you?
I don't know your story, but if you are in recovery of any sorts, this would be an especially big red flag.
Can you check the calls online? Cingular is up to date for me almost to the minute.
BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.
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Hi, Bill.
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And she lied to me about her sister,who is having an affair, and is driving one of his cars.I asked my wife where her sister got the car...she rolled over to face the wall and then proceeded to go into this elaberate detail of the car belonging to a woman friend...and on and on...
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Extraordinary stories require extraordinary proof. The more involved the affair is, the more extraordinary the lies become.
All the best,
Gimble
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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Thanks for replying,
I busted her "friendship" w/cell phone records two yrs ago.My daughter is the one that told me I needed to check on what was going on.I didnt have a clue.
At any rate,she now has a trac phone...pay as you go.No records...
I really dont think that i can do this again.
But I really appreciate your thoughts.
Bill
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