Watch out for what?

Hey Justin - I think I just got cursed out in German.. or worse, threatened... Quick... get the international editor!!!!

ok.. I can play this game too ************

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Hint: Men Masterbate.. and sometimes, we even leak..
We also have wet dreams if we're not getting it enough from you.

BB,

are you talking to me or fluke,

if to me, I was born in Mexico and learned deutsch and espanol in school and moved to Canada when I was 9 and now live in southwestern Ontario. Pluatdietsch is my native tongue.

Und du?

Getting enough from you???? come on earthman- you seem to only seem to climb out from under your rock when something weird about sex comes up on these boards.

When a woman posts a sincere question about sex you make a joke out of it.

Is that what sex is to you? A joke?

Despite what you think, sex is not a joke to most women. Men masturbating is not funny. You blame a man masturbating on his wife not giving it up?

This subject has been debated on here time and time again. If you prefer playing with yourself to a healthy loving relationship with your wife, then go for it. But when someone comes here asking questions about something that they feel is a genuine issue, who gives you the right to make fun of their concerns?

Many women feel that a man masturbating takes something away from the wife. It is ok for them to feel that way- it is not ok for you to make fun of them.


Many of us see red flags with both of these posters, yet you joke about it.

How would you like it if people made fun of your concerns of your wife's bipolar? That is just as real to you as this issue of concern is to them.

If you can't be supportive to someone who has a concern at least have the dencency to stay off their thread.

Curious.. do you do this for a living or just for fun?

1) Masterbation is OK if it's OK with both parties. Are you for real? Are there people in this country still alive and oppressed that think self-stimulation is bad and evil, etc.. Aren't they all dead yet?? Sorry, but my wife and I have sex AND we masterbate.. and we're ok with it.. Masterbation in lieu of sex, I agree is an issue, but that's not the case here since they have sex every day, which I also find to be QUITE strange in the real world.. EVERY DAY??? It's no wonder the poor guy wants something new... EVERY DAY.... ..

2) Depression to Masterbation is like Apples-to-Bowling balls.. Let's not go there..

And checking underwear is not the issue. What about a women's underwear? No one has stepped up to that concept yet?? How about it? Should a man suspecting his W of an A check her panties?? for what? Some women ejaculate.. What would it mean? She got wet in her pants. and no over me.. the guy she has to screw EVERY night..

and it's clinical depression, not BPD...

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Correction: Just when something weird pops up...

Yes!!



Actually,
your Not sorry as evidenced by your continued comments.

As far as checking underwear to Be somehow FUNNY ......well Unfortunately there are those of us that had to Bust our spouses using semen detection kits.

Not pleasant, but NO Laughing Matter either.

Effective .......but uncomfortable to say the least.

And for you to make light of it ........is Highly Offensive!

However,
since that is your goal ...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />


Did ya really need to encourage HIM??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

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beatdown,

I'm sorry, I don't know who I am talking to...........this thread is somehow gotten out of hand.

Well.......doesn't matter really. You sure have an interesting history!!!
take care
bb

Just to let the women know, that sometimes straining can put enough pressure on the prostate to release semen. It can happen while going to the restroom. In fact doctors can collect a semen sample rectally by pressing on the prostate for those that don't wish to perform by themselves.

So it's possible to have a stain and be innocent.

Having a bad day earthman?

I agree that a stain in the dude's drawers doesn't right away mean that he is doing someone else, there could be many reasons for it being there.

Besides, I don't know about other men but I take my underwear off when I have sex which leaves them clean.

If the stain is from him, it is highly possible that he was sexually stimulated. Like me, I can get aroused just by thinking of my W, might leave a stain in my hosen but doesn't mean that I had an A.

I suggest do research or just plainly ask him and see what his reaction will be, if he get angry, that means he is either hiding something or he's embarassed to tell. Just because you've been married a long time doesn't mean he doesn't get embarassed anymore.

I'm truely sorry for this................I was in NO way aware of where this would lead to!!!!!

bb

EarthMan,


Just for your info. A man suspecting that his wife is having an affair, can indeed check her panties. (Semem detecting Kit) or he can send them to a lab and get them checked for semem. If he is NOT having sex with her and semem is detected, he will know that she is having sex with someone else. If you didn't already know............women "leak" after sex and detecting semem can sometimes be the only proof.

This might sound funny to you but believe me.........there have been stories on this board dealing with this and no one laughed!!

take care
bb

Not true. Men also drip afterwards even if they take the underwear off..

I did underwear checks and would find the drips...which look like CLOROX stains..if the underwear is colored...

YUK..an awful memory....

People do what they need to do if they are suspicious that their SO is having an A, so I don't see anything funny about checking underwear, on either parties end!