I'm so emotionally drained right now I feel like I have nothing left to give anyone or even myself for that matter. I'm sure my wife is feeling the same way but atleast she gets to stay with the kids. I admit I have not been perfect and I have done my fair share of messed up things that probably are why we are where we are today. But for the last couple months she has been going out and coming home no earlier than 3 in the morning keep in mind we have 3 small kids. The last 3 nights it hasn't been until atleast 5 in the morning one morning it was 9:30.
Of course I go crazy and try and call 50 times when i'm sitting at the house and I know she's out and its 4 in the morning and the kids are going to be getting up soon. she says its because i'm there and she doesn't want to be around me so the other night I was like I would much rather you stay here than me be here so I will go sleep at someones house. So we had an agreement I wouldn't stay there and she would. Did she stay home no she went out and didn't come home until 5 in the morning. My mother-in-law lives with us so she was at the house but she is 71 years old. I've threated to call the cops on her and try and take the kids away but only one of them are biologically mine. Now I have to go get an apartment plus I have to keep paying the mortgage. How long can they make me keep paying for the house that i'm not living in? that is 1600 a month my wife quit her job and went out and get a new car with no job to pay for it or the house.
How long can the courts make me pay for the house and everything else. 2 of the kids I love as my own but I am not financially responcible for them she gets a check from there biodad for 900 a month when it comes. We are going through one lawyer and i'm starting to think that its a mistake. I need some advice....... I know she gets child support from me but how long for everything else we've been married 2 1/2 years.

I hate to tell you but it sounds like she is having an affair. Why else would she be staying out all night? I am sorry...

Don't know what to tell you from a legal standpoint. You need to talk to your attorney on that.

Good luck. We are here to help you.

Well since I have left she has been staying home lately. She didn't want to be around me because she is scared about fighting and arguing so instead of coming home she would be at a friends house. I am not living in denial but I really don't believe she is romantic with anyone even though i'm so insecure that I automatically think she is or will. I was acting like a lunatic when she would go out like that and that didn't help the situation she was scared to come home and be around me being so mad. I've never abused her or cheated on her we have just grown into two people that can't be together. She has never given me any reason to think she would cheat or has cheated i'm just so insecure because its happened so many times with other people that I put it on her and end up acting like a crazy idiot. For me that is all I think about is her being with someone else I go to sleep thinking about it I dream about it and I wake up thinking about it. Even though she has never even given any signs she ever would I just put all my screwed up experiences on her and its hurt us and gotten us to the place we are now. I guess I wasn't willing enough to change the things I needed to change. god I wish I could have I should of gone to more therapy and work through my problems but I guess that was me being selfish and now i'm paying the ultimate price for it.