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We are still married but have been seperated for 3 months now. She has her OM over to spend the night with her all the time but when he is not around she calls me and talks and talks and talks. I can not get her to admit her affair and I do not want to start an argument because that is the reason that she left and that just draws her closer to him. We actually have better conversation now than we did. I just do not know how to get her to admit it - will this just come in time?
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Joined: Sep 2003
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Your wife is acting like the typical WS. She still is friendly with you because she is keeping you as a back-up in case things don't work out with him.
It is unlikely that she will be honest about the affair.
Read up all about Plan A. That is the starting point.
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My real concern is that all she wants is a divorce - does this some times go away - I see all these people talking about recovery lasting well over a year did any of them start out the same way. She tells me that she does not want me to get my hopes up that at the end of the year she is going to file because she does not ever see us getting back what we had while we dated. Does this sound familar to any of the successful recovered marriages?
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