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Hi...
FWW and I are working toward recovery...so, the phrase "Trust, but verify" comes into play right now. I was emptying the trash and noticed a cell phone number that she had thrown away...While I hate doing so, I used reverse lookup and found that the number is based near her hometown and near the OM's home as well...what is the best way of finding out who the number belongs to (other than calling it and asking "who is this"? I am sure that a few of you fellow BS's might have had to do some "verifying" from time to time in the same way?

Any advice would be much appreciated...Thanks...Moondog


BS, Me - 47 FWW - 48 DD - 22, DS - 19 Married 23 Years EA/PA for 6 years - D'Day - 5/26/2004
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Do you know the name of the OM? I'd call and ask for him by first name. If its not him, he'll just think you have the wrong number.

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It was easy for me because I knew the OW. Her voice was easily recognizable. Make sure that you *67 first so Caller ID won't get ya. Maybe there is a voice mail and he might say his name. Good luck.

Loni


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Thanks for the advice...I know the OM's name...I may try what you suggested...but I guess that I was looking for a proven and reliable service on the web...


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I hired a PI, it cost $75 and was able to get more info than just the cell phone info. hth


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