Since I was last on here. I filed for divorce, I gave birth to our 3rd child, WH and I married for 2yrs been together for 8yrs. We basically stayed with eachother when we got pregnant with our 1st child at age 18. We lived together and what I thought learned fall in love with eachother and become best friends.
Three years ago when he re- enlisted Army reserve he met the OW they became friends and when they were deployed over seas they became lovers. Yes I exposed and it did no good. It reaked havoc for him but did not end the affair. Wh came back home decided that he needed to be with his family and restore our marriage, he stopped contact with OW for a month and couldnt help himself that they needed to keep their "friendship" I found out and gave him 3 chances to end it all and if he was going to try to work on us , It had to end! He didnt I filed for the divorce, I gave birth to our 3rd child and now he says hes gonna move on and moveout , tell the kids of our divorce. Well its been 2 wks he hasnt he said hes afraid of their reaction. For no he goes out and does his thing parties, etc and im sure goes to see her, she lives an hour away from us. ****** come home before the kids wake. He'll spend the day with me , act like nothings wrong, he still hides when she calls, he still tries to cuddle with me, tell me his whereabouts etc. He made it clear he cares so much for her, that their friendship was there before the physical attraction, unlike us. As if he was trying to condone his relationship with her!
Is this just fog talk or is their any way to reason with him . I want to work on my marriage I believe their is a chance. what should i do? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
