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As I have posted on many threads, my wife came out to me yesterday. After two months of thinking we just needed to reconnect, I find that the work is just beginning.
I believe that this is going to be a huge challenge and would like to talk about it. If you are embarassed, my email in is in my sig line.
Thanks!
Chris
Last edited by Got2KeepTrying; 03/23/06 07:04 PM.
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DS11 - The true light of my life!
EA (to become a PA on June 9th)
DDay Feb 5, 2006 ("I do not love you")
Real DD March 22, 2006 ("I think I am a lesbian")
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I don't know of any offhand, hopefully if there are they will help you out, but if you don't hear anything, just change the title in the first post, broadening it to include all women, and we'll see what we can do.
Best to ya.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Thanks neak. I am looking for a lesbian perspective on my sitch. I get great advice from everyone else. I just wanted to put out a flag and see what happens. There may even be closet lesbians out there that will email me. Of course, I will keep the confindence on that. Just fishin' <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Chris
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DS11 - The true light of my life!
EA (to become a PA on June 9th)
DDay Feb 5, 2006 ("I do not love you")
Real DD March 22, 2006 ("I think I am a lesbian")
Divorce Pending
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Good luck. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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G2K there have been quite a few but I haven't seen them posting for a while. Buttercup CC was one (completely heterosexual until she met the OW) and there are others but I can't think of their names right now.
Try posting on In Recovery with the same question.
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Maybe do a search using "lesbian".
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I wasn't sure about JustJ so I thought I wouldn't mention it.
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I have cross posted this per Kiwi's advice.
Also, knowing the names is great but how can that help since PMs are not allowed? Is there any way that I can get their attention?
Thanks
Chris
BS-me (40)
WW (39)
DS11 - The true light of my life!
EA (to become a PA on June 9th)
DDay Feb 5, 2006 ("I do not love you")
Real DD March 22, 2006 ("I think I am a lesbian")
Divorce Pending
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Another thing G2KT, it was very, very, very hard to help Buttercup see that her A was just an A in every sense of the word (a betrayal of her marriage by being involved with another person) because she had elevated it to stratospheric heights of kinship and bonding and sisterly understanding as they were both women.
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