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#1619962 03/25/06 07:39 AM
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This thread exists for one purpose...if you have a bad day, if you need to vent you come here and beat the crap out of Bag instead.

There is only one rule for this thread, you must use Bag's name instead of your WS, OP, boss, MIL, etc.

I got this idea from a self-growth board I am on, and it is a great way to get it all out, and not bash the real people in your life.

I'll start -

Bag,

You dirty rotten no good loser, you conned me, used me, hurt my daughter, took my property and then left me for dead...like a used up piece of garbage.

Well your the garbage Bag, and somehow, someday, somewhere...you are going to get exactly what you got coming.

You suck Bag...I hate your guts!


You guys will do better. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Good one. Save a spot for me. I may need it one day. LOL!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Hugz,
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Okay Weaver I'm catching the blues today so I'll give this a shot.

Bag,

I hate you, if there were not laws that govern such things I would step on your scrawny little neck and watch you squirm. I hate you for so many reasons. For hurting my beautiful W, for putting fear in my children that will never totally leave them, for putting a fear in me that I never knew existed. This is not a fear of you because I stared you and your gun down more than once this is a different kind of fear. A fear of the unknown, a fear that in a moments notice our entire lives as we know them can be snatched away. The reality that we are never secure. The reality that no matter how hard I try I cannot always be there to protect my family and keep them safe. Lastly I hate you because I still hate you so bad.

Today as I set here in a our quiet house while the rest of my beautiful family sleeps and all I can think about is the way of life you you took from us and I hate it and I hate you.

Some will say I should find forgivness for you but I do not have it in me. If there was any justice in this world you would still be in punching bag jail but no, you did what you do best and lied your way our early only to be there to stalk us whenever we dare return to our ranch. I hate that you have taken that opportunity away from my kids. I hate you.

Today I am down but I will get over it and everyday you wake up you will still be you and I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Oh yeah that is you!!!!!!!!!! You are a pathetic loser that preys on others. Did I mention that I hate you!?!?!

Okay Weaver that's probably not how it's supposed to work but that felt pretty good.

Always remember that IT'S A GREAT DAY TO BE ALIVE!!!!


H - Mr. E WW - Mrs. E married 13 years together 15 children 4,6,8(now with God),1 A exposed by OM 2/16/04 RECOVERY BEGUN 6/04 Fearlessly be yourself for there will be only one of you for all time!!
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It's a beautiful Spring day here in NE England - my back door is open, and the sound of children playing is drifting in from outside.

My beautiful daughter is 13 in two days time - she and her little sister are out with her friends (and STBX and OW) for the first half of her party.

Later today, they are coming back here for a sleepover (minus STBX and OW <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> ).

In short, I can't hate you today, Bag. I feel at peace with the world. There's something about the first touch of Spring; it's lifted a black, hateful shadow off my soul.

So, Bag - I won't be assaulting you today. Can I take a rain check, though? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Alph.


Me, BS 37 Him, WXH (Noddy) 40 DD13, DD6 Married 14th August 1993 D/Day 2nd April 05 Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28 Divorce final 6th July '06. Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx ...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Okay Weaver that's probably not how it's supposed to work but that felt pretty good.


That's exactly how it works Mr E. Good one!


Come on anyone else?????


Bag is a blood-sucking, money-grubbing, soul-eating, family destroying scumbag...

Beat the ****** out of him, let him have it!

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In short, I can't hate you today, Bag. I feel at peace with the world. There's something about the first touch of Spring; it's lifted a black, hateful shadow off my soul.


Bag hates it when this happens, it's the same as beating the crap out of him...excellent.

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Weaver-

So you have to use the word "bag"??? Just wondering.....I don't have any bag things today....but this would be a great way to vent them....(Could've used it a few days ago).

I don't know if anyone has noticed, but I REFUSE to use the term WH anymore. I call mine by his name now. He doesn't deserve anonymity so he'll get none from me.

I understand that most people do it because they're afraid they're WS will find this site......But I haven't changed any names. My name is really Caren, I use my husband's real name also.

He's computer illiterate, and even if he did find this site I don't give a poop.

Anyway.....this is a good thread Weaver.....You so smart <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

God Bless,

-Caren


Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.

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WH-37
Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
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So you have to use the word "bag"???


Yes, you can only bash Bag.

Just thinking about Bag makes me sick!

You took all my money Bag and keep raising my taxes...I can hardly afford the insurance on my vehicle, my house is falling down around my head, but you raised my property taxes anyway.

Between my medical insurance, my DD's braces, the high prices of groceries and gas, I can hardly afford to live....and then I still have to pay more income tax!

Bag, you are a money grabbing, slime sucking, ho-bag! I'd kick you if my shoes weren't so old I thought the soles would fall off!

And you are not getting any more of my money, I am going to find a way to keep it this year!

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Bag,

Why does my pain piss you off? I mean this is freaking stupid. My pain is FROM YOU and you do not want to see it or feel it? Get your head out of your a$$. I really could not care one itoa how you feel about this. The PAIN is REAL...YOU SHOULD SHARE IN IT.

Thanks guys, I am feeling better already.

Chris


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Ahh...Weaver, think I busted the bag,lol.
Ok, here you go, kick boxing it right now. [email]D@M[/email] you, atleast take half the responsiblity for this mess. It wasn't just me. How could you walk around that office thinking you should still be there, you should go too!!!!!!!!! What gives you the right? You are nothing but a whimpy slime bag who can't even owe up to your sins and one day you will run into the wrong woman and your marriage will be over and you will so deserve it!!! You are just lucky it was me this time around. One who thinks she has to forgive those who wrong her or helped wrong her life. A bunch of very bad words and another massive kick to the bag and now stuffing flies.

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You got it Chris & smfry...take it out on Bag, so you don't, heaven forbid take it out on a real person, or worse internalize it!

Beat it out on Bag, and then get back to the business of working your plan.

Don't be shy, don't be polite...take it out here on Bag.

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here's mine...

shoo shoo you rotten flu...

Spent 2-1/2 days in the hospital with my four year old cause he couldn't keep anything down....came home thursday evening...

friday afternoon he starts getting sick again....today my husband has him at the childrens hospital in their ER...

I am here with my six year old who started throwing up last night and is sleeping in his bed with a fever of 101.whattheckdoesitmatter...

I have done endless laundry..
washed my hands till they are bleeding
scrubbed the bathroom more than I can count...
and not gone longer than one hour without someone throwing up....so no sleep...
oh yeah...I will probably end up getting fired as well...cause while hospitals like to make money when YOU are sick...they can be total dickwads when the people that provide the care are in need of services....

the ship is sinking

ARK^^

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KERPOW!!!!!!!!!!!Another kick to bag just for you ARK!!!

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DOUBLE KERPOW...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They are admitting my four year old to Childrens Hospital...and I can't go be with him cause my poor little six year old is sick as well....

oh yeah I am off to call off for my twelve hour shift tomorrow....how ridiculous is it to feel guilty for calling off when your own family is sick...I think that makes me sick...

curses..

ARK

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oh yeah I am off to call off for my twelve hour shift tomorrow....how ridiculous is it to feel guilty for calling off when your own family is sick...I think that makes me sick...


[email]D@mn[/email] you BAG!!!!! Why should a mother feel guilty about work when her children are sick.

[email]D@mn[/email] you, [email]d@mn[/email] you, [email]d@mn[/email] you!

Ark - hang in there! I'm sorry.

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isn't it true though weaver...it's so warped...

ark....did the call now I feel even worse....

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Ark, hunny, take it easy and take care of the family. Hope everyone is better soon!


Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail. ~ Kinky Friedman
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Oh Ark,

Sooo sorry to hear about your kids being sick. That flu sent my son to the hospital in Dec.

It does pass and all that cleaning I did, didn't make it pass any quicker.

It's the flu and gotta run it's course. Ginger soda helps.

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Orchid..

I'm ready to hide in a closet and smoke some wacky weed...<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
chanting shoo shoo you rotten flu...

ARK^^

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I will probably end up getting fired as well...cause while hospitals like to make money when YOU are sick...they can be total dickwads when the people that provide the care are in need of services....

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

LMAO.....Ohhh how I know this one.

When I was a surgery resident I was once on call and sick as $hit. Had 103 temp, diffuse myalgias, swollen lymph nodes the size of golf balls, and literally had not eaten in a day. MY residency had (and still has) a reputation of kicking A$$ and had a "only the strong will survive mentality". NOONE (unless they were actually admitted to the hospital themselves as patients) ever called off. It is NOT something anyone did.

Anyways, fearing the wrath of the sadistic program director and chief residents, I had my colleague fellow resident put in a 16 gauge IV into my arm and give my 3 liters of Lactated Ringers solution over 6 hours, while he covered my pager and I slet on a ER gurney in a vacated room in the urgent care bay. This revived me enough to make it through the next 16 hour shift.

This is a totally [email]f@@@@ed[/email] up system we live in. The very people who are entrusted with life's and man the front lines of the hospital aren't given the same accord and respect....I get ya on this one.

Lem


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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