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I found a card today that my WW bought for someone but never gave him. I'm pretty sure I know who it was for, and it is a good sign that she never gave it to him, but the fact that I found it hurts since it shows how much she was straying. The card says:
If you'll be my valentine I'll give you affection, understanding, and companionship! What more can you ask?
When you open it it says:
OK! OK! I'll give you THAT, too!
In her writing it says, "I know we are just getting to know each other, but I thought this was funny!"
She then says, "Thanks for being my Valentine Sweetie, (her name)"
Of course, it hurts a lot to find this. And we're divorced now with the plan of taking time apart to heal and eventually get back together. It just hurts so much to see this. It helps to know she didn't give this to him, but it still hurts nonetheless since she didn't give me anything for Valentine's Day.
BS-34
EXWW-27
DD-4
DS-Twin boys, 2
D-Day-28 Feb 06
Divorced-24 March 06 (no contest D)
Separated from Air Force - 30 Apr 06
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How did you get divorced in ONE WEEK? huh?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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BS-34
EXWW-27
DD-4
DS-Twin boys, 2
D-Day-28 Feb 06
Divorced-24 March 06 (no contest D)
Separated from Air Force - 30 Apr 06
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Again, how did you get divorced in a WEEK? What country do you live in? In the US it takes much longer than a week.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Again, how did you get divorced in a WEEK? What country do you live in? In the US it takes much longer than a week. Why are you being so confrontational with this guy? Chill out, already !! Help the poor guy out.
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sheesh, you chill, girlfriend! It is a simple, straightforward question.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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