Can anyone give insight on the subject of exposure -- who do you expose to when the OW is single?

Her parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, her pastor, minister, priest, or rabbi, her friends, her siblings, her boss, her co-workers, her on-line friends, anyone and anyname that you can get a hold of that may have an influence over her. Somewhere in there, someone will have personal experience with infidelity and may assist with setting her right. You have no idea where or whom will apply that pressure so you tell everyone. Further, by exposing the affair to everyone in her life THEY (the infidels) no longer have any safe haven within which to deepen their secretive affair. Affairs thrive in secrecy and collapse when the real cruel judgmental world knows of it's existence. The lying stops and the rewriting of history stops as the statements now become verifiable. Insecurity and hesitation enter the relationship and it becomes doomed....eventually. Exposure marks the beginning of the end.

Good luck,
Mr. Wondering

Thanks Mr. Wondering
I have a post from yesterday under "Just Found Out". Didn't get any repsones there. The reason I asked about the exposure is b/c this is the WS and OM 2nd contact after 18 months. I just want to cover ALL bases this time.

Yes...this board is a lot busier. And yes, renewed contact after 18 months SCREAMS for exposure.

In case you missed it...there is current thread (on the first few pages here on GQII) started by WAT (Worth a try or something like that) which discusses exposure AND links to numerous old threads discussing the same.

Mr. Dubya (not the idiot one...lol)

Mr Wondering:

Do you have any idea how to format the exposure OP's email contacts? Recently found WH email password and found OW's threat to H that if he didn't leave/divorce me at a certain time that she would come over to our home and tell me herself and calling me names. Thinking about sending a copy of her email to her contacts along with my own note at the top a somewhat of concern for her especially since she's told her teen kids about having a married man come and live with them. The OW is emotionally manipulate and unstable.

I've since implemented plan b on 3/19/06. D-day 2/1. Kicked WH out that night. He is staying with his college friend (married, church going youth minister). Wonder if exposing OW now to her contacts would jeapordize plan b. Any thoughts?