Post deleted by stargazelily

Okay......I think you should definitely expose to her e-mail contacts, that's a good idea.

BUT, I think that you letter is a little wordy and gives a little too much explanation. You have to remember that you are talking to her "friends" and if you expect them to have any sway over her, you can't talk her down.

Attach the e-mail she sent talking about suicide and about harming your family or whatever, but YOU keep it short and sweet.

Just say something like:

My name is ******* I am writing this e-mail to inform you that OW is having an affair with my husband and has taken him away from his wife of (X number of years) and his children.

I still love my husband and am trying to find a way to mend our family, but cannot do so with OW in the picture.

I just wanted to make sure that you knew.

Please find attached the e-mail that OW sent to my husband, as her friends it may be cause for concern.

Thank you for your time,

Stargazelily

I just implemented plan B. Will this be a BIG LB?

CarenMc,

thanks by the way for your feedback.

Stargaze