Alleygator,

I would continue to be vague and would make as many plans away from home as you can. He is probably keeping tabs on you through your D so let him wonder where you are going. It is good if he thinks you are going on with your life and not laying around pining for him. At 17, I would think you could explain to your D that you would prefer that their discussions not include you. I think it is good if she still has a relationship with her father but it should be about the two of them and not the three of you.

Hang in there. Plan B works!

Nkay


Me - 49
FWH - 50
1st D Day - 7/12/05
Plan A - 7/14/05
2nd D Day - 3/2/06
Plan B - 3/15/06
In recovery since 4/13/06 - Going Well!