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I have been married 8 years and my wife and I are no longer communicating, only parenting our 3 kids. We are both stressed and ssem to have not made time for eachother.
She says she doesn't know if she loves me and 6 months later still doesn't know. I do love her but cannot keep waiting for her to decide.
we have not had sex in over 6 months and I cannot wait much longer, and I have told her that. I am afraid I will look for someone to have sex with and my marriage WILL end.
Just looking for some advice/ideas/similar story. Thanks.
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Are you sure that there is not a third person in the picture that your wife is turning to? The things she is saying and doing are rather typical of a person engaged in an affair.
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what have you done to change the WHOLE atmosphere and picture of the snowball effect of pulling away from one anothers...
have you sought out and found a pro-marriage counselor..
have you considered pro-marriage retreats...Catholic churches have them ...this site has them...as do many other churches...
have you made date nights..
time for her
have you romanced her called to tell her you are thinkning of her...
brought her gifts...
in other words why are you waiting for her to decide...why aren't you pursueing the heck out of her...
and knocking her off her feet...
ARK
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