I haven't posted here for about a couple of months but I just wanted to share what's happened to me. I got divorced almost 16 months ago. You know how they say that God only gives you what you can handle and that when he closes a door, he always opens a window.

Well, I've had that window opened and it's lead me to understand why it had to happen. I've been on this site for about 3 years now and I've been through all the stages of grief a few times over and with the help of the people here, I've learned about acceptance and heartache. I was always looking for a reason that would make sense and give me peace after my divorce once I really let go of the fact that we weren't meant to be together. That was tough. I'll never forget the story I read on marriage builders called the "pearl necklace" whereby a father asks his daughter for her imitation necklace so that he could give her an authentic one.

I've met somebody who complements me and I know now how important that is. It means that things aren't one sided in our relationship. She reciprocates my gestures and feelings. She has heart and it's exactly what I've always wanted. Thank you God and thanks to each of you that has helped me to know that what I was feeling, was o.k. I hope that you all find what you makes you happy!

Very well said Coughlin! Congratulations and good luck.

FR

I'm glad that your at a better place in your life. You've taken your experience and built upon it. I hope to be there someday!