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Wonder if anyone has any stats on % of Ms that survive an A and other details that speak to the quality post A, how long they actually last post A, etc.

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Don't know exactly what your looking for...lots of stats out there. From some things I've read on this site and others, from memory, it appears about 80% of marriages survive infidelity. If children are involved the percentage is higher and if 3 or more kids are involved the percentage is over 90%.

Only 3-5% of affair partners end up married after a divorce and only 3% of such marriages last 5 years.

Nearly 100% of infidels that end up divorced report "regret" within 5 years of the divorce. Regret for their infidelity and/or for not giving their marriage a second chance (not sure it was one or the other or both).

I thought the following study to be quite enlightening so I am providing you with the link.

Link to American values study on divorce and happiness


http://www.americanvalues.org/html/does_divorce_make_people_happy.html

Good luck,
Mr. Wondering


FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered

"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Thank you. Great data.


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