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Sheesh....that's dumb!
Do WS really think we are that stupid to not see that?
LH, no she's just flying back there to spend time with him, in thier "emotionally attached" relationship. Not physically of course. (yea right) I don't think it's his birthday.
It's actually my birthday that is the weekend following this trip out there.
Me/BS = 28
WW =33
DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
WW moved to Virginia to be with OM = 8/21/06
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While I was telling my little story, I missed the posts about getting the poop on OM. Good idea.
Have you tried a simple Yahoo people search knowing his name and location? If you need help with locations in Va., I'm right here (there)! What part of Va.?
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WAT - know any cops in that area that would run a check on him for you? Here in TX all you need is the name and dob....and wa-la! Instant info!
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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No, I don't know what area it is - and don't know any cops in my area. Easy work for a PI though, I bet. No expense should be spared to protect GF's daughter.
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I wonder if the Wookie could do it?
Calling now.
I'll let you know GF.
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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I should be able to find enough info on him from snooping at home to nail down his birthday, and hopefully his new address too. As soon as I have enough info, I might just try one of them there online background check thingys. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Me/BS = 28
WW =33
DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
WW moved to Virginia to be with OM = 8/21/06
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I wonder if the Wookie could do it?
Calling now.
I'll let you know GF.
- Kimmy Do I want to know who the Wookie is? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Ok never mind...just took a closer look at your sig!
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Me/BS = 28
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DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
WW moved to Virginia to be with OM = 8/21/06
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I should be able to find enough info on him from snooping at home to nail down his birthday, and hopefully his new address too. As soon as I have enough info, I might just try one of them there online background check thingys. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Okay. Just let me know if you need us. I love my Wookie....guess you couldn't have guessed that huh? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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What really creeps me out about this is- well didn't he talk about how he didn't know how he would feel about a "ready made family" in their email and all of that jazz? But he's that bonded with his ex gf's child? That doesn't make sense to me, unless I'm remembering something incorrectly.
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No, you've got it. The guy is a creap, scum bag, piece of sh*t.
But hey, that's just my opinion!
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WAT: "A knock at the door, my wife goes to answer it. It's OM's W holding MY FROSTED MUG (unfrosted, of course). " Yeah, but I'll bet the OMW frosted the OM's testicles for that! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> -ol' 2long
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Me/BS = 28
WW =33
DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
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GF... Here a link to what I have heard is considered by many to be a reputable online background search site... www.netdetective.com I have not personally used it...perhaps there are some here that have and could provide some feedback for you...I have read that this site has even been used by PI's and investigative reporters...Of course you can't believe everything that you read, so I dunno...check it out and see what you think... Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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It's not easy unless you have a lot of information to start with. You will need full name, birth year, phone number, for starters. Once you have th age and a birth date you can get somewhere. Chances are the OM is just a gutless piece of crap mommies boy that had never been CAUGHT doing anything big time. I hope for you find some real dirt though. I was really let down when I struck out. However, I quickly realized that most gutless chunks of crap that most OM's are good at not getting caught.
I hope you nail that basturd.
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The following quotes are from the creepy OM's emails to GF's WW... ~I genuinely appreciate the fact that you've been willing to take that risk, because I know that I'm not necessarily the safest person in the world to be around right now. ~I'm thankful for having met you, and I am thankful that you've been willing to trust me - despite some of my actions or some of your fears to the contrary. ~I'd like to think that you can trust me completely, but I know that it's probably a little difficult for you in light of my occassionally "volatile" and "annihilistic" personality.. GF... Did his XGF ever give you any information as to why he refers to himself in this way...I know that you didn't give her the emails, but did she provide any insight about him at all? Maybe I missed something that you posted about that...sorry if that's the case...I think that his above quotes are quite eerie...enough that I would definitely want him checked out... I'm sure that you remember this line from his email to your WW, I keep thinking that it would be nice to see you every day - and have you sleeping in my bed each night I think that that quote tells us that this is NOT "just emotional"...though I'm sure she says "we just sleep next to each other...nothing else"...GRRR...Uh Huh, RIGHT! Mrs. W
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PUKE!!! I hate that line!!!
No ex-gf hasn't given me any insight into OM's inner workings.
She has stated that she didn't think he was capable of something like this, but obviously she was wrong about that.
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Good Father, I had some time to think about you telling me that your WW and OM locked themselves out of your home last week-end and had to break into the house, ladder to master bedroom window, to get back in. I believe the reason they locked the garage entry door, which WW normally doesn't do, was they were paranoid you'd show. They thought locking it would slow you down if you showed. The funny part, if there is one in this situation, is they locked themselves out when they left that next day. WW didn't have a key as she typically relies on the garage door opener. Sure must suck to be so paranoid when in such a guilt-ridden illegitimate dishonorable relationship. They both should be so proud. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
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However, I quickly realized that most gutless chunks of crap that most OM's are good at not getting caught.
I hope you nail that basturd. So do I, Dazed! I'm having such a hard time wrapping my mind around a man that can come into another man's home and spend the week-end there with his wife. Its so spineless and sleazy. WHO DOES THAT?
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I don't think they did it in paranoia. WW knows I will not risk breaking the law under any circumstances.
Plus she knows that I have a key on my key chain and wouldn't slow me down but for a couple seconds.
I think it was just pure stupidity that they locked themselves out of my home.
Me/BS = 28
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DD = 5
Found out about EA/PA = 4/07/06
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GF, Take a look at this site. It won't take the place of a good background check but it IS interesting!! http://www.familywatchdog.us/
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