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Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort Plank #1624193 04/11/06 04:10 PM
Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 8,297 K KiwiJ OP Member
OP KiwiJ Member K Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 8,297	testing urls The Affair World Last edited by KiwiJ.; 04/11/06 04:20 PM.

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort Pepperband #1624194 04/25/06 03:24 AM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 63 TEXAS A AnnieT Member
AnnieT Member A Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 63 TEXAS	One of the very best I've read. It is so touching, and for both sides of us. I couldn't sleep for all the **** running through my head and having that "no one has a clue of my continued pain" and holding it in; so I got up and somehow found myself to this post. Another God thing!! Thank you both so much, I can go back to sleep now. AnnieT AnnieT

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort AnnieT #1624195 05/10/06 02:31 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 39 G Grace37 Member
Grace37 Member G Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 39	I just re-read this and am sitting here crying. I don't understand how Kiwi could go the OM route again. Not after knowing all the heartache and pain it caused her husband.

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort Grace37 #1624196 05/10/06 02:50 PM
Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,503 G greergan Member
greergan Member G Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,503	Pass the tissues please. This is my first time reading. Namaste' **** My beautiful partner: 45 Her sweet guy(me): 43 Her's: DD 8, DS 10 Mine: DD 10 (suffering PA, rarely with us)

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort Grace37 #1624197 05/10/06 02:53 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,164 Dallas, TX B bitbucket Member
bitbucket Member B Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,164 Dallas, TX	Yup. I guess it was all just words.

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort bitbucket #1624198 05/10/06 03:08 PM
Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,503 G greergan Member
greergan Member G Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,503	I don't believe that in the least. Namaste' **** My beautiful partner: 45 Her sweet guy(me): 43 Her's: DD 8, DS 10 Mine: DD 10 (suffering PA, rarely with us)

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort greergan #1624199 05/10/06 03:38 PM
Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816 2 2long Member
2long Member 2 Joined: Feb 2002 Posts: 10,816	gg: I don't either. This is another tribulation for KiwiJ. A rough one, and perhaps indicating she wasn't "done" processing the A. I hope for a better fu2re for her and Rob. Regardless, it's going 2 change. -ol' 2long

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort 2long #1624200 05/10/06 03:40 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 977 N new_beginningII Member
new_beginningII Member N Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 977	Oh.my.god. Pass the tissues, indeed.

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort new_beginningII #1624201 05/10/06 06:57 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 39 G Grace37 Member
Grace37 Member G Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 39	I don't post often but I do read often. Kiwi's downfall has affected me, just has it has many here at MB. I feel when Kiwi wrote this with Plank, she was sincere and genuinely believed her marriage had recovered. It would have been 3 years in June since the affair with OM. HOWEVER, if being a FWW is similar to being a recovering alcoholic, the chance for relapse is always a possibility. (Why else would Dr Harley be so adamant about NO CONTACT with OP?) This was perhaps Kiwi's first TEST since the affair ended in 2003. If so, SHE FAILED THE TEST. (We were all hoping and assuming she would be an A student and 'graduate with honors'! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort Grace37 #1624202 05/10/06 07:02 PM
Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 15,310 M mimi_here Member
mimi_here Member M Joined: Dec 2002 Posts: 15,310	Yep. I've finally become agreeable to my FWH's desire to move away from this city!! I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort mimi_here #1624203 05/12/06 07:05 AM
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Grace37 Member G Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 39	Some have wondered and mentioned here why Kiwi's husband could not just come here and read her 'confession.' I have this nagging feeling that this below post (from above in this thread)that he may NOT have read this thread, he may NOT even know she posts on MB. (Just a thought.) This whole episode with Kiwi re-connecting with the OM is a SAD time here at MB. Likewise in the Kiwi household. (The OM's household as well.) Quote Reged: 02/04/04 Posts: 4269 Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's My H never, never, never reads MB. He doesn't get my "addiction". I was telling him last night that I try to help and I told him about this thread. My mouth nearly hit the floor when he said he'd like to read it. I said he might find the early bits upsetting but he said he'd lived it and nothing could shock him. Anyway, I left him alone to read it. After he read it, he came in to the room where I was and he put his arms around me and kissed me and said "that was really, really lovely." I told him it was from my heart and he said "I know. I could tell" When we woke up this morning he said, that thread was wonderful and uplifting, I really do love you. I said I love you too. It was a wonderful moment for us and I wanted to share it.

Re: The Affair World - from In Recovery - Plank & KiwiJ's joint effort mimi_here #1624204 05/19/06 07:47 PM
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Evil_Mean_Nasty Member E Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 25	^^^^bump for Kiwi

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