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Ok - not sure if anyone read my previous post about him wanting out but it seems plan A is the advised route to take. From everything I'm reading though plan A infers that he is interested or somewhat willing to work on things. He has left me and says he is not interested or willing to try anymore, he just wants it over to move on and swears the OW is history. How do I do plan A if he isn't willing?
BS: 41
WS: 41
MARRIED: 21
1DD: 19
1DS: 15
D DAY: MAR 10'06
D: HE IS ON THE VERGE OF FILING
CURRENT STATUS: TRYING TO START PLAN A
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you really should cut and paste this post on to your original thread that way your story will remain intact. Delete this entry afterwards and let it fade away.
Mr. W
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Plan A has nothing to do with his willingness.
Have you read Surviving an Affair? It is required reading around here. It is what this site is all about.
I really need to save these links for this kind ofposts, but look for the carrot and stick of plan A. Look for a post by Melody- there are some good links in ther sig line. Pep and Orhid have good ones too in theirs I think.
Read read read on here.
Keep posting.
Hang in there.
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