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hi im am a married male with 2 children 6and 8 ive been married for 20 years and for the most part was a loving husband and father,,during our marriage i had some bouts with alcohol abuse and recovery but things seemed better.anyway my wife has been having an affair for three months and left her email open by accident.she tells him how much she is in love with him and how he has filled a void in her life...she also says thier love making is excellent and she cant wait to see him everyday and they are very much in love he says the same and that they are totally in love . i am heart broken and devastated can two people fall in love so quickly? they cant go a day without seeing each other...she says shes in love and shes sorry if she hurt me...were scheduled for mediation on wednesday and she would like me to leave may 1st please help advise.
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mruggi
Sorry you are here, but you are in a good place. Welcome to MB.
Have you exposed to anyone yet? Is the OM married? Do you know his family?
How familiar are you with MB principles?
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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mruggi
I just saw your other posts. I will read them and respond more later.
WOL
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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he is not married and has no children, i have not exposed it to anyone yet....to who i dont know.
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Her parents, friends. Start making a list of who can impact her.
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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