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When I first met my husband, things were great. I thought he was my best friend. Until I found out he was living two different lives. Then two weeks after we got married, I found out I had cancer. All of a sudden I noticed he was gone. In reality, I found out that he was hanging out with his buddies drinking. Then came the big shock while he was with me he was sleeping with 22 women from AOL/Yahoo unprotected. They were e mailing his account and calling him on his cell. I had my first abnormal pap due to him having HPV. When I found all this out I was devastated. My first reaction was anger and betrayal. He left and went to stay in the barricks. I [color:"red"] [/color] [color:"red"] [/color] [color:"red"] [/color] told him to come home so we could work on the marriage. He left went to Iraq. When he came home things were no different. However, I was pregnant. He spent more time in the barricks then he did at home during the pregnancy. I always have that nagging feeling of suspicion. He was back for three months. Now he has been gone for 31 days. He refuses to communicate except through e mail and hasn't seen his daughter for 31 days. I feel like he is punishing us for his mistakes. He is now taking the role of victim in this situation. We are going to marriage counseling however, I am not sure it will work. He is due to deploy overseas and is making plans for us to go with him even though we are not talking. I just don't know what to do anymore. Any suggestions?
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Welcome to MarriageBuilders, D...
Sorry you are where you are--happy you found MB for you.
Rather than say anything else, you're posting in what I consider the wrong forum. There is a ton of information on this site, but posting in the Infidelity - General Questions Forum would benefit you greatly. More traffic and on topic.
You can cut and paste your post to that forum. No retyping required.
See you there...
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