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Yeah it does cause a few issues because drugs are involved but let me clarify something right now I do not do drugs and I have not done anytype of drug since I was 17 years old and even then I now know was stupid. There are no drugs in the house and I have never seen them but I think he forgets that I know what someone looks like when their stoned. Ive been there as sad as it is to say and Ive taken classes on recognizing it. Its not just wishful thinking but I dont have proof.
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K im a chicken I cant risk someone I know reading this there is way too much information in these posts for them to know exactly who I am. And with my luck my MIL has already read it lol < wait so not funny. Ive got my answer thanks to everyone who offered their advice I think the people Im closest too know the situation well enough to give me good advice. But it was really great to get some neutral advice. But before I go I must say that even though all of this is true I havent always been the easiest to live with Im sure and I need to take responsibility for my actions as he does for his. I cant just come on some anonymous website and bash him which was not my intention at first because I have problems too and I need to stand up for myself and my son by doing what is right fo us. Maybe he'll grow up one day and maybe he'll find someone who makes him happy enough to really want to be a better person and maybe I'll find someone that will make me feel better about myself again and who wants to be happy with me. I think Ive just come to terms with everything and I have managed to do without hysterical crying I hope thats a good sign.
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Well, we can only react to what folks write here - augmented by what we can infer from our experience dealing with infidelity. BTW, the infidelity stories all are more alike than they are different.
So, not disclosing as much as you did may very well have led to different reactions from us - me anyway.
It is healthy that you realize your negative contributions.
If you choose not to engage here anymore, please take advantage of the wealth of information available on this site regarding building healthy marriages. It will not be time wasted.
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Thank you very much for all your advice all of you and I will definatly look more into this website if not to help this relationship it may help with ones in the future. Thanks Again.
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