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#1630703 04/06/06 02:26 PM
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I took this to another post because you all were about as interested in helping habiba as fly to the moon. Okay, you may criticize me all you'd like but my H theory when he read all the "crap" you've thrown my way is that you and some others who throw such hostility my way (and others) is that your not over your own pain yet. So, anyone who reads these posts where you attack and spout venom should understand that context. I'm okay with it because I understand you are still recovering

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I do not believe that at all. Your husband is incorrect.

The two ladies you mentioned specifically have done more to help others to recover than you could ever imagine. I do not sense pain from their posts, but I do sense it from yours.

What can we do to help YOU recover? I'm dead serious about this....what do YOU need from us? Please look deep.....

Lori


VERY HAPPY! FBS/FWS; 47yo; M-29 yrs.; DS-26,DD-21; our affairs: 1990-'96
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sfjaj..

pep and ark are the same people...
you don't have to split hairs to start a post to attack them..

just pep in the title
OR
just ark in the title
would have accomplished the same thing using less cyber space

(preferably pep leaving ARK out of this...)

just so you know in the future when you want to start a fight...

ARK

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I guess you missed the ump-teen-thousandth post by the mods about not calling people out by name.

dday was 11 weeks ago and your husband thinks these people are mean? odd... You betray him in the absolute worst way and he is worried about people being mean?? To you??

I certainly hope he doesn't brush over this whole thing you have done... man THAT will cost you later...

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BWHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

selling real estate under a bridge ... any takers?

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what's for lunch today?

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<shyly raises hand>

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I think we have trolls in our midst.

So far I can count two.

Arkie,

You mean you and Pep are the same people? Dang, all this time I thought you were husband and wife.

Well color me purple. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

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How much did you pay for the subterranean dwelling Pat?

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you aren't here to help anyone; you are here to pat one another on the backs. How ludicrous

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How much did you pay for the subterranean dwelling Pat?

uh... how to answer.... umm...

depending on context, a lot. Or nothing.

or, in the name of keeping humor alive...

"Well, I'll be-a-tellin' ya Pep, that there sub-crust-a-she-ann DE-wellin costed me a right purty penny, by golly!"

However, sometime after purchasing my underground lair, severe POP! was heard for miles as my head came out....

You know, I used to think the world was against me too...

glad I got past that crap.

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Who dat going "trip trip trap" over my rickety bridge ? Ah its the realtor !


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Who dat going "trip trip trap" over my rickety bridge ? Ah its the realtor !

Sobbing with laughter <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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I do not believe that at all. Your husband is incorrect.

The two ladies you mentioned specifically have done more to help others to recover than you could ever imagine. I do not sense pain from their posts, but I do sense it from yours.

What can we do to help YOU recover? I'm dead serious about this....what do YOU need from us? Please look deep.....

Lori

Agree 100%.

Also, you didn't answer Lori's question...

What do YOU need from us? How can we help YOU?



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you aren't here to help anyone; you are here to pat one another on the backs. How ludicrous

yes...
and it is really hard when you are two in one...

you can really hurt yourself when trying to pat yourself on the back...

truly..
try it...

it hurts...

ARKPEP

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you aren't here to help anyone; you are here to pat one another on the backs. How ludicrous

BWHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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you aren't here to help anyone; you are here to pat one another on the backs. How ludicrous

welcome to the forum... expert <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

... do you do this kind of thing often? Join a forum with ideas already cemented in your head and then start blasting people you have no idea about?

You're in charge in your house I am gathering....

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sfjaj, you need your sense of humor tuned me thinks. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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That is so completely untrue, sfjaj, that it's laughable.

I don't know how you explain someone like me, an FWW who helps.

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How much did you pay for the subterranean dwelling Pat?

uh... how to answer.... umm...

depending on context, a lot. Or nothing.

or, in the name of keeping humor alive...

"Well, I'll be-a-tellin' ya Pep, that there sub-crust-a-she-ann DE-wellin costed me a right purty penny, by golly!"

However, sometime after purchasing my underground lair, severe POP! was heard for miles as my head came out....

You know, I used to think the world was against me too...

glad I got past that crap.

NOT the whole world Pat ... just me and Arkie <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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