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Joined: Jul 2005
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A little background in case no one remembers me. Wife had 2 affairs that I know of...recent one with married coworker in May 2005. We went through mediation and the divorce is in the works with the lawyers. Should be final in 60 days. I moved out in November 2005 because I couldnt handle the torture of her seeing her boyfriend, him calling, not coming home...etc. She told me she wanted a divorce and has NEVER apologized for having the affair.
Deep down I still love my wife and am an emotional wreck. I have been looking for a good book or workbook as a self help guide through separation...divorce and what to expect but can only find books focused on emotionally helping women through this. Can anyone recommend any reading material?
Thanks in advance,
Rufus
Rufus33
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ME - 36
STBX - 36
Married for 15
She's had 2 Affairs (that I know of)
Separated 07/05
Divorce date: Early 2006
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Find a local divorce support group. Look in the newspaper or search the internet.
I really liked the Fresh Start Divorce Recovery Workbook.
It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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