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#1632034 04/07/06 11:15 PM
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I was married for ten years and I constantly had problems with my husband cheating with women online. In June three days before our anniversary my husband stated he no longer loved me and wanted to be with one of his online girlfriends. I had thought we had worked this problem out years before. We went to counseling and everything, but he had never stoped his online affairs. He had just learned to hide it very well. He met all of his girlfriends playing online games and they would have cybersex online. The woman he left me for is some loser he met playing World of Warcraft. He stated he is madly in love with her. This woman had sent him mass amounts of nude pictures of herself and knew that he had a wife and child. One thing that makes be feel better about the whole thing is that she is extremely unattractive, but I guess he is turned on by her online character. However, even though she thinks she won him I discovered she was not the only online girlfriend he had. So he will always cheat. While I am extremely hurt by the whole thing I am glad the marriage is over. No matter what I could have done he would have always cheated and found women who got a thrill out of messing around with a married man. The only advice I can give is that eventually the online cybersex will trun into an all out physical affair. If I ever discover something like this in a future relationship it will be over immediately.

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Welcome to MB. nteresting post. How long ago did you go through this situation?

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Hi, I have been separated from my husband for a period of time, we dont live together anymore but I found his profile on one of the web pages and that made mas, I called him and ask him why and he said that just want to talk to people because he does not have friend, I have been trying to get to his account but I cant guess his password. Do you think that the services you use can be good for me since we dont live together and we dont share computers?

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We just got divorce ten days ago and i am moving to my new life now.

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This is the worst day of my life...but beyond this, now it can only get better knowing the truth? So people say. To everyone out there who is a skeptic, this is the REAL thing...I was a skeptic and whoever this Godsend of a person is, they got me the proofs in less than 4 days. All I can say is God bless, God Bless, God Bless, I cannot thank this person enough.....what I found out was terrible, but not knowing was even worse....the price they charge is nothing for the piece of mind you get. To all you out there who feel betrayed and hurt, this person is as professional and reliable as they come. In fact I haven't met anyone this honest and professional in quite a while.Thank you, there are not enough words in the English language to thank you!

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Alana,

This is your 1st post. What r u talking about?

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My husband and I have been together for 4 years in the beginning of our relationship he was seeing someone right before we started dating that he worked with....said they were better off friends. Yesterday I checked his voicemail and there were 3 messages from this girl - one about meeting for lunch....said she said "Hi this is Michelle from //Construction and meet me at 2:30" - I asked my husband and he said it was gal named Michelle and account that he called on. Well I took the phone number and googled it and it came up with the name of this gal he dated before - he had put ///Construction as a "code name" so that when I looked at his phone I wouldn't know - and what hurts more is she was in on this secret!! He said he did it because he knows how jealous I am and that it would be a HUGE fight if I saw that Michelle called or they went to lunch - they are JUST friends!! He is right that I am insecure and jealous - both my dad and my father in law left my mom and mother in law after 30 and 40 years of marriage, and I have had past boyfriends cheat on me - so yes I am insecure and would not have approved if he asked to go to lunch with her. But WHY should he be friends with someone he use to date??? Why have this secret and code name. Not sure how I can trust him - this girl I know had a HUGE crush on my husband for years and he now works in the same town she lives and works in. HELP - ADVICE?


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I reported this thread to the mods. sneaky one has slipped advertising in here before. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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I reported this thread to the mods. sneaky one has slipped advertising in here before. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

FF...

I emailed Justuss about it after I posted here last night...didn't want real newbies to get sucked in...Looks like great minds think alike, huh, FF? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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