Well, still here I guess, dealing with the same stuff since Nov 4th 2004... WW is still living with OM. We are still talking, but now, shes started to want to spend more time with me. She wants to start making new memories of us. She doesnt want to talk about all the old problems. I told her that wont work while she is still with him. I wont be a part of the triangle anymore. Crap or get off the pot. I dont think she will ever leave there because she is a weak person I think. Its easier like this, to lose "us" than it is to change her whole life around again. Im just going to let it play out and tell myself I dont even want her anymore... for anyone interested, I have lots of posts about my sitch. Think Im going to start another blog type post.... Sorry to see so many people still here or coming for the first time <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

How about Plan B?

Sounds like she's realized she needs you more than she thought.

Plan b time I say. If she wants you, she won't be so weak.

Steve, please stop running off. I think part of the problem is you are not doing any plan at all. Stick with us this time and let us help you through this ok?

Big hugs to you, glad you came back.