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in shock and could this be
#1633081 04/10/06 09:08 AM
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still living with my wife and children why we go through legal seperation. had a decent weekend..she told me no sex because she doen not want to be unfaithful to om..she also said he does not want us sleeping in same bed ...can u imagine this..
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mruggi #1633082 04/10/06 09:18 AM
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she told me no sex because she doen not want to be unfaithful to om

This ought to speak volumes to you - on how twisted her brain is.

The sad thing is that she very, very likely does not understand why anyone would roll their eyes at such an astonishingly absurd statement.

Sadder yet is that we've heard this before on this forum.

Stay squarely atop the moral high ground, mruggi. Consider stoooopid statements like this as indication of your sanity and her delusion.

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Kobe: To buy off a spouse after an adulterous affair is discovered: "He had to kobe up a $4 million diamond to pay for that one-night stand."
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worthatry #1633083 04/10/06 09:44 AM
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I have to ask you something. I read your other posts and in 36 posts there is very little information from you. You type 1 maybe 2 lines at the most.

My question for you is this: "Is this how you communicate with your wife"? Women need conversation and believe me you are not the only guy that may have a problem with communication! This is a huge need for women.

You need to do something to try and stop her fantasy. Just from what little you will say I do not think you are doing enough. Stay in the house and keep records of what she is doing. If you need to go to a lawyer and get some advice.

I don't want to be mean to you but you do not say what you are doing so I am not sure anyone can give you advise. But I can tell you if you communicate with your wife the way you type then I can tell you that you are not meeting your wife's need for conversation.
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IHadEnough #1633084 04/10/06 01:04 PM
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im doin plan a by ceating an enviorment thats tough to leave..she is still moving foward with the om saying she is in love with him and he fills her emotional needs..we are im mediation talking about custody and other issues...sry i hate typing
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IHadEnough #1633085 04/10/06 01:05 PM
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what can i do to stop her fantasy???
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her mother and sister know..our kids and family members on my side dont..

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