Pep

Just Hello <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Max

who are you?

Mel Gibson?

... you never called me back Mel

obviously a Canadian !

I know and, well what can I say, lost ya number, somewhere.

Truth be told, I am a girl and I have the bits to prove it.

Max

Australian.

Mate


Max

g'day

yup


Max

It's 1AM in Melbourne

why are you awake?

I 'm not in Melbourne

I'm here in Toowoomba.

and I think it is a bit l;ater than that.

Max

What's the difference between BITS and NIBBLETS ?

Just wondering....

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hemisphere geography

Keepmovn4wrd,

It's nice that you are trying to help relationships, when you haven't had the experience of someone betraying you. I'd love to see how you would handle your wife being in the arms of another man, holding and caressing her. She does the same to him. She lying to you, over and over again - then insisting you are imagining it. You being confused and not know what’s going on.

You love your wife, yes, but since she had her affair and she treated you like this, you would definitely call it quits - you wouldn't stand for this – would you? You would never stand for her being in a total fog of what she has done. You would be willing to throw 20 yrs or so, down the drain. Would you? And, what if she was totally stubborn, but you knew in your heart she would eventually change – would you give her a chance, several chances – or would you give up.

How about if you had so many obstacles that you thought you would go out of your mind – but your heart would not stop loving her. Would you give up then?

It’s very nice and easy to give advice, but until you are in all these people’s shoes that have been hurt to no end, you really can’t give advice, only what you THINK people should do.

Yes, people should be nice to each other, respect each other, work together, but this doesn’t always happen. A lot of the information on this site and the people that give advice is good solid advice and has helped many, including me. I tried so hard to follow the principles on this site, but just couldn’t – my husband wouldn’t do any of it. Many of the long time posters like, i.e., Larry 178, Man in Motion, and others tried knocking sense into him, but he wouldn’t listen. But, I refused to give up.

I replied to your post on “Trust Issues”. Like I said I hope your marriage will always be sound and never have infidelity. I wish this on no one. But, please don’t be so judgmental on people until you have been in their place. No hard feelings – I consider you lucky that you have a good marriage.

LOL..I learn something new everyday around this place!!!

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I had something similiar happen last week... I wrote something and the thread originator thought I was saying something TOTALLY different than what I meant. Click here if you want to see what happened.

That's the problem with writing to virtual strangers... and even if you're pals, if you can't see someone's face and body language you can be misunderstood - sometimes with harmful results. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

PS: Niblets, Nibblets, Bits... Kibbles, Crunchies, Dibbles, Donut Holes... it's all the same around here... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

NB

boy-oh-boy do I know what you mean !

and throw in a little Pep brain antiquity ... and in the immortal words of femme fatale Bette Davis

what a dump

so hard to remember everything and everyone and who's who and who's what and who knows me and who does not and who I think is a stinker and who I think is an innocent

..... remember the Italian grandPa at the end of the movie Moonstruck .... he said, crying, "I'm confused."

That's the way I feel lately too, Pepperband.

Last week I found the Fabreze in the fridge. I think I must've thought it was whipped cream. But we don't have any whipped cream, so... uh... I don't know. I *am* confused.

I spent the whole Monday after the time changed an hour behind... I realized my error sometime around 5pm when I went to a store that was going to close in an hour. Except it *was* an hour later. The store was closed.

And you know about that day last week. The day I missed. Um, Thursday. Yeah, that's it.

Life. And age. And hormones. Gotta love it - or not.

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[color:"blue"] Last week I found the Fabreze in the fridge. I think I must've thought it was whipped cream. [/color]

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PS

Today is Tuesday

*snort*

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Well, I have made a concerted effort to keep track of the actual days ... since... *that day*... LOL. Thanks for keeping me on track anyway. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />