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#1633810 04/11/06 08:22 AM
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OnthePath05 #1633811 04/11/06 09:34 AM
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WOW lots of views and not one opinion.

OnthePath05 #1633812 04/11/06 12:09 PM
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Actually, it's very typical for a post to average 40 views per post, and you deleted this one around 30-some......

Patience..... Seems to be lacking with those here as well as those in your dating life.... Why is that?


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No particular reason, You are correct regarding patience.
Now, what I have done now is let the guy know that I respect his wishes and would agree to being Just Friends with him. He is an amazing individual and I would like to keep him as a friend. So I will go from there. I usually read and re-read what I post and I know the answers most of the time. I also know what is best and I know that a relationship is not best for me at this point. I need some time for myself, to get over what I thought I got over. But the mere fact that the first nice guy I meet I want to get serious with proves I am not nowhere near ready. Now I just hope the nice guy is willing to remain Just Friends with me, and I hope I did not scare him away.
Thanks for replying.

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The entire time I have been on here I dont think I have ever paid attention to the average view per post prior to a reply ratio.

Jessica

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(((Jessica)))

I'm glad you can see that, many don't and end up hoken hearted again. Like it or not recovery takes time, you mentioned that you've been separated for like 2 years but not yet divorced. To that I would simply add that there are still emotions to process and recovery to do. I had a grandma on her death bed for years and waited day in and day out for that call. I thought I was prepared for her death, guess what, when she died there were still emotions to process....

Anywho, good on ya, for seeing that...


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