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I have a 14 year old d and a 22 year old step-d. I posted in the how the children are affected before I realized that section was inactive.
d-day was 8 months ago, 2 alleged OC by same OW, ages 16 & 10
I am a Christian, my h is not. I do have concerns about what my staying may or may not teach our d.
Please share anything you experience with your children of marriage regardling the A. Any thing to do or not do would be appreciated.
I have encouraged our d to try to forgive and I am doing the best I can do right now.
Our d has a lot of unexpressed anger right now and she is in c.
What can I do to less the negative impact on her future relationship?
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>What can I do to less the negative impact on her future relationship?
Other than what you ARE doing, not much.
Realize that a lot of her anger is her daddy's doing. HE'S got a lot to be accountable for - and she will remember if he steps up to the plate or not. Nothing you can say or do will fix this for them. This ball is firmly in his court.
- Kimmy
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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