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I have no idea if the OW is visiting his place or not.
He doesn't live near me, about 50 minutes away.
I have no idea how to find the OWH. I will keep thinking...
I have decided to tell him on Friday that he needs to stop contact with her if he wants this M to work. I never really told him that before, just that I thought this "friend" thing was inappropriate. Is that a good thing to do?
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Can you hire a Private eye? Can you stake out his house? You can look up the OW's name on www.peoplefinder.com and see if you can find her H and relatives that way. Did you check the phone book for her address and phone #? That might have her H's name in it. Start thinking, PLK!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Went on peoplefinder. No listing. Not in phone book either. Guess she's unlisted. Plus she has a very common first and last name, so it will be hard.
I will keep trying. Believe me. I want to find out ASAP!
PI's are $$, and I can't afford one to just sit at his house for hours and hours, hoping she comes or he leaves. Plus I don't know if he'd be home or not on those days.
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PLK, go stake out his house YOURSELF when you think it is most likely she would be there. When is she off work?
Take a camera and get pictures. If you find her there, get her license plate #.
Why don't you email me her name and town and I will see what I can find.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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