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#1634288 04/12/06 12:20 AM
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I have been really busy, and I haven't really been around. I thought I would give an update. My divorce was final this past Wednesday. It felt like a huge weight had been lifted. I thought I would be more sad than I was.

About a month and a half ago a friend of mine introduced me to a great guy. He has two kids, and he treats my daughter wonderfully. He treats me like a princess. He constantly asks me if he can get me anything, he's very affectionate. We are taking things slowly, but he just seems like an all around great guy so far.

I am slowly finding myself again.


Married 5 years. Together almost 14 years. Age 30 DDay March 2004 OC Born June 2004 2nd Dday Feb 2005 My daughter was born 7/22/05.
Wife30 #1634289 04/12/06 07:49 AM
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Wife30,

Thanks for the update.
You sound peaceful.
No more drama - good <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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xH-38
DD 10/03
D-day 11/03 (cellphone)
Talked-Day 01/04
H left-02/04
Divorce-05/04
xH left -false recovery 1 week- 08/04 -told about OC
OC-07/04
xH left -false recovery 6 weeks- 12/01/04
12/02/04 DESTRUCTION OF MILY MUST END
1/17/05 - Started dating
11/05 - CS and visitation established at Court
02/28/06 - xH moves back after 2 yrs!
10/16/07 - asked xH to leave - he's still in a relationship with OW
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Happy to hear you're doing well Wife.


BS/47 FWH/42 Married 22 yrs Kids - S30,SD23,SS22 OC Born - 09/08/04 C with OC - SS It's an UPHILL CLIMB
inanutshell #1634291 04/12/06 10:11 PM
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of course u r with such an angel by ur side


ALL OW DON'T RESPOND OR COMMENT ON ANYTHING I POST EVER. I'M NOT HERE TO SPEAK TO U! I am here to speak to other BSs that Can relate to my situation and OUR shared experiences. I COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANY OW HAS TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING, EVER!

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