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I wanted to do a Mortarman update every 1/2 year or so just to update on where things are with me. I will get to that hopefully later today, as things have been crazy this year and I feel like all I have been doing is putting out fires. So, I will get it up here shortly!!

I did want to invite anyone that was interested in the software that I used to do Plan A/Plan B/and to get custody of my kids...that the guys I gave it to in order to finish and market...have finished it. They have told me that they will begin allowing regular orders this Monday.

I have asked them if I could get my friends and others on this board an introductory price, as I definitely wanted to give back here something because of all of the support I have gotten from many of you. They stated that until Monday, they will allow anyone that pre-orders on the website, they will receive $10 off the price.

So, I wanted to get that out there. If anyone is interested, please either post here or email me at Mortar29@yahoo.com and I will get you in for the introductory price.

It is a great program. They have taken all of the little Excel and Word documents I used to record exposure, intel, witnesses, financial info, my planning (Plan A and B) and journaling and put it all into an easy-to-use format. And then all you have to do is press a few buttons and have reports for your attorney, your counselor...or even yourself (like looking at your journal) to see where you have been and how you are doing. Just one of those reports I had, my attorney said I saved about $300 on having it pre-printed in the way he needed it...instead of having his clerk have to do it.

Oh yeah...and they did say that they are already working on an even better version to be out later this year. They stated that those that buy this version will get an automatic upgrade!

Anyway, I was impressed with it when I saw the final one last week. It is simple but pretty much gets everything.

Anyway, didnt want to be an infomercial. Just wanted to get that out there.

I will have my update soon.

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whats the name of it...

va-POOOOO-rize...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

sounds good to me....

nice work mortarman..may your work be blessed


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whats the name of it...

va-POOOOO-rize...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

sounds good to me....

nice work mortarman..may your work be blessed


ARKie^^

I like that ARK!!!

But they came up with a non-descipt name because it isnt just used in infidelity cases. It can be used with any marriage that has issues (abuse, addictions, decided to call it quits, etc). So, they just call it MarriageBase.

Although, I like your name better!!

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did you see the movie envy with jack black and ben stillar...

I have to admit it cracked me up a little....

that's what they developed...vaPOOOrize...

I can see you doing an info-mercial on it...

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did you see the movie envy with jack black and ben stillar...

I have to admit it cracked me up a little....

that's what they developed...vaPOOOrize...

I can see you doing an info-mercial on it...

ARK

Oh yeah...OPs are just like terrorists! I would love to develop a unit that does nothing but hunt down OPs!! (And for anyone worried out there...I'm not talking about hurting them bodily...just making their life a living He!!).


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I would love to develop a unit that does nothing but hunt down OPs!! (And for anyone worried out there...I'm not talking about hurting them bodily...just making their life a living He!!).

Can I sign up for that unit? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Of course, what do you do when OM was your friend to start with? Then again, his life is already a living He!! for a lot of reasons - not sure I could add a whole lot to it...


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did you see the movie envy with jack black and ben stillar...

I have to admit it cracked me up a little....

that's what they developed...vaPOOOrize...

I can see you doing an info-mercial on it...

ARK

Oh yeah...OPs are just like terrorists! I would love to develop a unit that does nothing but hunt down OPs!! (And for anyone worried out there...I'm not talking about hurting them bodily...just making their life a living He!!).

I'll be your first customer!!!!! Everyone in line behind ME!!!!!

Seriously, tho....MONDO CONGRATS!

- Kimmy


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Yo MM - does the software include the alien/foglatin translator with reverse babble option?

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I think that's the 2.1 version, WAT.

LMAO!


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Yo MM - does the software include the alien/foglatin translator with reverse babble option?

WAT

Trying to get that put in...but the problem with it is that computer languages are LOGICAL. Fogese is not.

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did you see the movie envy with jack black and ben stillar...

I have to admit it cracked me up a little....

that's what they developed...vaPOOOrize...

I can see you doing an info-mercial on it...

ARK

Oh yeah...OPs are just like terrorists! I would love to develop a unit that does nothing but hunt down OPs!! (And for anyone worried out there...I'm not talking about hurting them bodily...just making their life a living He!!).

I'll be your first customer!!!!! Everyone in line behind ME!!!!!

Seriously, tho....MONDO CONGRATS!

- Kimmy

Thanks Kimmy!

I just hope that this tool can help people like it helped me. I see too many BSs on here lost, or not knowing what to do, or cant find the info they had, or have lost their journal, or forgotten something. It allowed me to capture all of the info I needed...and even more important, it gave me something to do in the middle of all of the mess. Plus it saved me a lot of money that I would have had to pay to my attorney!

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Soon, and very soon....

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mortor, I am interested if for nothing else to be able to have everything neatly documented for my attorney. Thank you! mlhb
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Oh yeah...OPs are just like terrorists! I would love to develop a unit that does nothing but hunt down OPs!! (And for anyone worried out there...I'm not talking about hurting them bodily...just making their life a living He!!).

MM:

The problem with this "unit" as that in many cases, the same people you are gunning down will have spouses who will also want your services to gun down your wife, my wife, and many of the WW's here.........LOL...all you'll have left is Betrayed Spouses.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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and maybe not even many bs's lem... some of the bs are waywards as well! gettin complicated here..... lol mlhb


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