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I am new here, so maybe I shouldn't be writing this post. However, I have seen what all of you can do to help bring encouragement to WS out there. I am really shocked that no one has chimmed in to give "spydee", who is contemplating an AFFAIR, so hard-core advice.
You have all helped me here - I am too new to help her.
I know we all have our own issues/problems but I think this one CAN BE SAVED.
If interested she posted on "just found out".
"It's the simple things in life, like the kids at home and a loving wife, that you miss the most when you lose control. Everything that you love starts to disappear..."
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Get her over here, Sad. With so little time in our day as it is, it makes it much easier to track threads that we are helping if they are in the same group. I try not to jump over if I can, because I would end up never doing any of my work!!
In His arms.
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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I told her to move her post to GQ II - I don't think she's been on today. I sent here three posts.....but I am not the one to give advice - yet :-)
She just seems sooooo savable!
"It's the simple things in life, like the kids at home and a loving wife, that you miss the most when you lose control. Everything that you love starts to disappear..."
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I know. I suck.
I only come here and sometimes to the PG board.
Let her know you posted her post over here, wouldja?
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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I did....she just sounds like she could break at any given moment, but also so save able at the same time.
I know there is hope for this girl and I want her to get it so she doesn't have to go through we we've all been through and/or put our spouses & families through.
I'll pray for her.
"It's the simple things in life, like the kids at home and a loving wife, that you miss the most when you lose control. Everything that you love starts to disappear..."
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