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when you read your LOVED one post a letter stating the ways they love someone else . doesn't that just creep you out?
Whats worse looking at them afterwords,
If they knew what you had seen , could they LOOK ay you?
I got a few of the lovey dovey letters I will post for you to read . If you will post a few too .
why can't a spouse try and feel this way twords there Mate? Or just talk this way?
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Yeah, I felt the same way. Kinda regret getting KeyLogger but realize that it's a necissary evil sometimes.
Besides not wanting to relive those feelings when I read them, I'm not going to post any in case it effects what may someday become a custody battle. I have them all tucked away in safe keeping for a judge to decide who abandoned who should it come to that.
I pray to God it doesn't.
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Divorced April 26 2007...
REMARRIED to a wonderful woman October 13, 2012!
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I was thinking about getting this and then deleting all the emails from me to him as he is keeping them to use against me at some future date. I wrote some pretty harsh ones when I first found out. I guess they can take the computer and pull stuff off even if you do delete them. Evidence eliminator any good? geesh high tech, high stress. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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here is one that she wrote that really makes me uncomfortable in bed wiuth her if I happen to think of it, don't know why , what do you think is it just me or do I have a problem??
Here is just a starter . Can you beat this one?
I swear, I get the biggest case of the tingles whenever I am with you. , well, there is just no describing it. It always makes my day so much better.. I don't know what I would do without you.
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Oh, don't get me started on the cheating e-mails. I lose sleep over the info I've read. It totally disgusts me. I feel like I am reading high school love notes.....yuck, yuck, yuck.
My worst line:
"My sex drive in my current relationship is a 2, FACT. I have told my g/f, but nothing has changed, FACT. My sex drive with you is a 10, FACT."
BTW, It's called a marriage not a relationship and I'm his wife not his g/f.
For some reason, they had this thing with writing FACT behind what they were writing to show it was true. Whatever! Also, they were asking eachother their favorite color and car and flower and how many children they wanted (we have 2 BTW) and their dream house. Disgusting!!
BS (me) 30
Ex-FWH (iamsosorry) 32
Married 1997
DD, 10; DD, 6
A - PA 10/8/05 - 11/23/05?? - will never know the whole truth!!
ILYBNILWY speech - 11/10/05 - the day before my Birthday.....Happy Birthday to me!
D-Day - 11/23/05 - Happy Thanksgiving to me!
D-Day 2 - 4/10/06 - Happy Easter to me! (First time I found out it wasn't a ONS as he's been telling us all)
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My husband tellsme that in these relaionships, they need to DRAMATIZE everything they write to each other.
Because it's not real, and if they don't exagerate, fantisize or live it in the drama level... there's nothing to it, nothing to talk about and it dies.
They need to build something it does not exist, they need to force it.
he also added that now he understands the need for all those women to tell him about all their life. their failed relationships on the second or third mail bacause they wanted to build a relationahip that didn't exist.
Yes all were single, but all knew he was married with young children.
Anyway, even realizing this... it hurts just to remember what he wrote.
d-Day- jan2006
Me 38, WH, 36
Children-8 and 10
status: slow, slow, recovery...
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The "problem" with my keylogger was that it only captured half the conversation (key strokes from my computer). Never got to see the other half. As if the the "I loved doing such and such to you" and "it makes me crazy when you do this and that to me" and "I've never done that with anyone but you, that's just for US to share...of course I loved it!!!!!!!"; try: [chat session] "I know we have to do something about Ron"
"I know there probably isn't any other way"
"It scares me"
"If that's what it takes for me to be free of him"
"I'll do ANYTHING to be with you my love"I'd love to know what was proposed during this conversation... hmmm, probably should have avoided this thread too <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />
Me, 58
Her, 52 (called away 4/5/2005)
Married 32+
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The "problem" with my keylogger was that it only captured half the conversation (key strokes from my computer). Never got to see the other half. As if the the "I loved doing such and such to you" and "it makes me crazy when you do this and that to me" and "I've never done that with anyone but you, that's just for US to share...of course I loved it!!!!!!!"; try: [chat session] "I know we have to do something about Ron"
"I know there probably isn't any other way"
"It scares me"
"If that's what it takes for me to be free of him"
"I'll do ANYTHING to be with you my love"I'd love to know what was proposed during this conversation... hmmm, probably should have avoided this thread too <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> geeze Ron, I'd be scared to know what was on the other end of that convo. Sounds like a plot to exterminate the BS. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> L.
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my wife emails to om were like two dogs in heat..nothing but how they love each other and cant live with each other..also how incredible thier sex is...argggh
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this key logger thing. It is a teaser, But if you want the whole skinny, Buy private investagator . by the same company.. you get screen shots of every page on the screen erased or not
Plus you get a log of each written conversation and passwords, e-mail addys, to & from each person .. I am not plugging the product , I just am using it.,
Remember if you don't want to know DON'T Buy this program!!
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my wife emails to om were like two dogs in heat..nothing but how they love each other and cant live with each other..also how incredible thier sex is...argggh YES! how does a person live with the knowlage that your mate is naked & acieving penatration with another person, very disturbing. ?? here is one that was found on screen shots (pi) & was no where else..... I came behind you & beeped . thought that you didn't hear it. when you pulled over I was not expecting such a DEEP surprise . it was quick & FILLED my HOLE day just right . Thank you, and see you in the am for another go round!
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Toolman,
I gotta ask. What are you doing about it? Haven't seen you around in awhile? Last I heard from you, there was no solid proof. Sounds like that has certianly changed.
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Toolman,
I gotta ask. What are you doing about it? Haven't seen you around in awhile? Last I heard from you, there was no solid proof. Sounds like that has certianly changed. I been working to get my ducks in a row. iron clad is not good enough for me . 100% proof is what counts.Past that I am getting so much that I hate to quit. These people act like life is a joke or a 3 stooges show. well I will let y'all see what the end result of giving enough rope to hang them selves can turn up. shocking about how little you really know about some one that you trust. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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These people act like life is a joke or a 3 stooges show. Very well put. I totally agree. It is disgusting!! I don't see what is so "addicting". So sorry you have to be drug through all of this! Don't you just hate it when someone you love and thought you trusted makes YOUR decisions for YOU (and your family)?? -CO
BS (me) 30
Ex-FWH (iamsosorry) 32
Married 1997
DD, 10; DD, 6
A - PA 10/8/05 - 11/23/05?? - will never know the whole truth!!
ILYBNILWY speech - 11/10/05 - the day before my Birthday.....Happy Birthday to me!
D-Day - 11/23/05 - Happy Thanksgiving to me!
D-Day 2 - 4/10/06 - Happy Easter to me! (First time I found out it wasn't a ONS as he's been telling us all)
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I see she is checking her history on e-mail a lot.but I am not logging on Just reading the screen, way easier!. so I better back off a little while. Might have had a slip of the tounge, said some thing I should not know by mistake!!
Last edited by THETOOLMAN; 04/13/06 08:44 PM.
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a good keylogger program will also take periodic screenshots of whatever is on the monitor for you. Mine does it every minute.
That way I can see what the other person is writing in IM conversations.
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a good keylogger program will also take periodic screenshots of whatever is on the monitor for you. Mine does it every minute.
That way I can see what the other person is writing in IM conversations. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> COOL ain't it? I have mine set at 30 sec. seems to be just about right I might try 1 min. would be less pictures to look at. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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My husband has been using email to contact "escorts"
He admitted to meeting with one
Although this is not a long term emotional affair, I am totally devastated
Has anyone has this experience
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My husband has been using email to contact "escorts"
He admitted to meeting with one
Although this is not a long term emotional affair, I am totally devastated
Has anyone has this experience thats terrible key logger will help its free
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