I got a call yesterday from a stranger. She said that she and few other people said that I should know that my husband is having an affair with this women at work. That his vehicle has been seen at her house, and that when he went to the city overnight for training, she went with him. I knew that she took that week off of work, and was suspicious about it. She said that she is sorry that she had to tell me this.
I confronted my husband about this. He was in shock and denies everything. I don't know what to believe anymore.
I know that his truck has been spotted there in the past, when all this first started. I even caught him there in the past myself. He said that that was what the person who called me was probably referring too. He saids nothing has happened since then. I called the OW last night and spoke to her. She is denying also. I told what this lady said to me, and she said nothing has happened. She said that he has not been to her house except for the times that I have caught him there, and that nothing happened between them, and that she didn't sleep with my husband. She said the he just came to talk to her. And that he was her friend, and was just talking as friends. I had a few choice words with her, and told her that she should not have even had him to her house, knowing that he was a married man. And asked her if she made it a habit of kissing married men. My husband did tell me that they kissed.
He seems believable, but really, how can I believe him. I want to. He has been treating me like crap for a while now. It all seems to come together. He said that he knows he has been treating my badly. That he was sorry for that. That even though he said he was going to move out, he didn't plan to anymore. He said he knows that I love him. He said that he cares for me and that he would do anything for me. That he is willing to work on our marriage now.
He still lies though. The other night he said he was stopping at the bar with his buddy and that he was only staying for a little bit and then they where going back to his house to work. I told him yesterday that I was going to call this buddy and ask him if my husband was working there. That is when my husband told me that he didn't work there, that he ended up staying at the bar for a while. He could have been with her for all I know. He said he wasn't with her. He said he told me he was working because he knew I would be upset if I knew he was out drinking that long. This is not the first time he has lied about stuff like this.
I shoud have questioned this lady who called me more. But I was to upset. He said that he don't want to lose me. He is telling me everything I want to hear. But If it hadn't have been for this phone call, I think things would go on the same as they were before.
His family even tells me that he isn't acting right and hasn't for a while. I spoke to his cousin's wife who also works at the same place. She said that even though she hasn't heard anything out at work, that I should really consider what this lady told me.
My husband also thinks that rumors have been started from what happened in the past, and that somebody just now has decided to call me about it. How can I believe him that nothing is going on now?
