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My husband of 6 years told me on Feb. 13th, 2006 that he was cheating on me and he conceived a baby out of it. Now at first I thought it was a joke, I mean the day before Valentine's Day, I knew he was joking until I really looked at his face. He had been dating this woman for over a year and even though he said they were using protection it failed and they conceived a baby that at this point was now 6 months old. I was furious and I told him to leave before I did something I would regret. How can you come back to sanity after something like this!!!!
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Joined: Jan 2001
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Oh my dear.....welcome to MB. You ask the questions How? Well, we can show you how but it will not be easy.
What prompted him to tell you? Has paternity tests been done? Is he asking you for a D? How do you feel?
There is a way to get a recovery plan in place. 1st for you then if he is ready for it, for the M. Right now we need to work on you but you must find out what kind of WS he is.
Are there children involved?
When you are ready, go over to the pregnancy and child board. They are very helpful with scenarios like yours.
What do you know about the OW? Is she someone you know?
Let's help you channel your anger, hurt and frustration into positive energy. You will feel like your world is ending and very angry. This is a normal reaction for a very abnormal sitch. Ready for our help?
take care,
L.
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