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in shock
#1637201 04/15/06 04:16 PM
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im still in plan a and living home with my wife and 2 children and some days are tougher than others..my wife said to me today that some of her family members seem to think were gonna work it out,,so my wife says to me thats not the case i hope you realize this but im not leaving om.


i still know they talk and see each other everyday..this is an emotional affair for her with sex love etc....oh well just hanging in there and just wanted to share
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mrruggi, have you exposed the affair to her parents, her siblings, your priest, your family friends, the OMs parents and family? Is the OM married?

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101
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her family knows..my family does not ..om not married have not told anybody on his side really dont know much about him
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Was her family told by YOU? What were they told? What about your priest? Do you know for SURE he is not married? How do you know this?

You might be able to find out his parents names from www.peoplefinder.com. If you are not sure he is married, call his house with your # disguised using *67 and ask for Mrs XYZ.

I would get as much info as you can and expose it in one day to get the maximum impact. You will ruin her affair because affairs thrive in secrecy.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101

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