Hi,

I just found out the the OW last name is not what I thought it was. She had it changed back to her maiden name after her divorce. My husband briefly said what it was, but wasn't sure if he was pronouncing it right. I tried doing a search and came up with nothing. How can I find out what her maiden name is?

Also, once I find out her maiden name, would I be able to call a hotel my husband was staying at 2 months ago and find out if she was checked in there or not? Would they be able to give me that information? How would I be able to check on that?

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks alot

They prob won't tell you that for privacy reasons, unless you said you were her and asked for a copy of the receipt to be sent to you--if they have no record of her name, then you wouldn't get a receipt--might work, won't know unless you try.



I google OW's full married name and found it that way. You might be able to pay for background check--sometimes it shows other names used--sure the maiden name would fit into that category. there are lots of sites that offer background checks. Intelius is one I used for a cell number I couldn't trace. (Hope it's okay to mention names of palces--if not, I'll delete that part).

Hope that helps.

Hotels that allow indiscretions like that to go on will not give you info even if you have their real names. BTW, most OPs like to go under the WS' name so in my case, the OW nutcase called herself Mrs. Ws. YUCK!!!

One time I called the motel where I knew they were staying. I told the deskclerk that I was the wife and there was an emergency and asked to be connected to his room. That foreign desk clerk knew exactly who was in the room with the WS.... he wouldn't connect my call through. Yea.... WS had a cell but he wasn't answering it. I told the desk clerk my son may have to go to the emergency room (Asthma issue). Still he wouldn't budge. That was MOTEL6.

Later at another MOTEL6, I received what sounded like a 'suicide threat'. I called 911 as previously instructed (I had been told by a law enforcement officer), reported the call and they tracked him down to Motel6 less than 1 miile from my office which was about 10 miles from the OW's place and 30 miles from my home. He had no business being near my work but the OW wanted to make her presence known.

The police went in full force to the Motel. I was kept abreasst of the entire event while it unfolded and even got a call from the OW yelling at me for ruining her evening. LOL!!!

I had the full support of the police and don't regret making that call.

My point is not to use the name to find them.....they probably are not using her name at all.....

What you can do with her name is a full backgroud search.

L.

Any other suggestions you guys?

I need to find out if she was with him that night. The stranger that called me the other day said that the OW went down there with him. I do not know how she knew this, I'v been beating myself up for not asking more questions. Her number came up private, so I have no idea how to get a hold of her. My husband saids that it isn't true. Of course he will say that. But I need to find out the facts of what this stranger said to me.

Any other suggestions on how I could find out would be appreciated. Would maybe a private investigator be able to find out? Thanks

Mandy,

Try zabasearch. www.zabasearch.com. You might find out both names there.

Interesting site!

Or call the hotel and tell them you are OW. Tell them you need a receipt to file your expenses and ask if they will fax you the bill. I do this all the time when I forget my receipt.

Have you already told your H you know this? If not, I was going to suggest that you not ASK him if he did, but tell him you KNOW. If you ask, they will always say no. But if you tell them you know, there is no room for debate. And why debate what you both know to be TRUE?