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Hi to you all I hope you had a nice easter holiday.
Update for me from the weekend:
STBXH called round to the house whilst I was out- he has not been here since he moved on with OW almost 6 months ago and contact has been minimal since then- Myself and the children are in plan B.
Anyway ODS and YS were the only ones at home- OS asked WH what he wanted I believe in an angry manner, WH replied that he would like an adult conversation- OS asked again what he wanted, WH got angry and told OS he wanted nothing from him ,OS then said to his dad that he could leave then, WH became very angry and tried to attack OS but OS shut the door before he was hit.
STBXH and OW had been in town visiting his family and friends during the weekend- WH rarely contacts the kids, he has not spoken directly with any of them for 5 months just a text message every 3 or 4 weeks.
I'm not sure how to handle this, Plan b letter was sent mid January so STBXH knows our position on contact and attorney letter from only 3 weeks ago confirmed that all correspondance had to go through her.
Myself and the kids are building a life without WH, why can he not let us do this- we are moving on much quicker without contact.
Any advice about this would be greatly appreciated.
Miffy1
ME(BS)-45
HIM(WH)-48
5 grown up children, 2 granchildren due August 06
OW-35, 2 children 8yrs and 6yrs
D- Day 28 october 2005, WH left, lived with OW 2 weeks before moving into apartment-affair continued they have lived together since january 2nd.
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WH got angry and told OS he wanted nothing from him ,OS then said to his dad that he could leave then, WH became very angry and tried to attack OS but OS shut the door before he was hit. This is unacceptable behaviour. I would speak with the lawyer about this.
BS 42
WS 39
WH ONS 04/97 and EA ???-08/00
D-day for both 08/00
-Life is 10% what you make it...90% how you take it-
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Thanks Daisy,
Yes I will be contacting my attorney today and ask what she advises- I will never accept behaviour like this, physical violence is never right.
Miffy1
ME(BS)-45
HIM(WH)-48
5 grown up children, 2 granchildren due August 06
OW-35, 2 children 8yrs and 6yrs
D- Day 28 october 2005, WH left, lived with OW 2 weeks before moving into apartment-affair continued they have lived together since january 2nd.
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