"The question about emotional needs being a valid reason doesn't sprout from curiosity...it's driven by a need to be re-assured that the affair wasn't your fault...becasue you're not convinced yet. When you are, you'll be able to look at your behavior in the marriage in a more objective manner."

Exactly what is it I am not convinced about yet?

I love objectivness.

I am yet to be convinced on snobjectivness.

Sometimes Loworbit we need to take time perhaps to,

Look at an iceberg. There it goes floating by. Looks like an iceberg. So lets call it an iceberg. What do we see again ? An iceberg...till we look at what lies beneath.

We all have needs mate.

Max