Oh, Welcome, SAHM!
You have come to a great place for you and your marriage. Really. I'm doing a little happy dance...don't look.
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What you have going on is resentment. Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
However, God just showed me the beautiful side of it...that it can inspire someone to find out what they can do about it, be led here where your marriage can thrive.
You just taught me something.
Read all the articles on this website (the links to them are to the right of your screen near the top...about the Love Bank, Emotional Needs, Love Busters...there are questionnaires you can do...don't skip the Recreational Companionship one...and the Policy of Undivided Attention...all of these will go a long way into showing you how a marriage can rock...and you're half the marriage.
You have power in your choices, a great heart and a will. All the makings for a great human marriage. Won't depend on your H, either...you are not being overly sensitive...your feelings are valid. They are yours. No one elses. He isn't causing you to resent, you're choosing to...and you have needs, valid needs...that he can't meet when neither of you know about them, right?
You have not lost who you are, but bless your sensitivity and awareness, because resentment is like spackle...and as you layer it on, you build a barrier over yourself to yourself, and to others. You've caught this so soon...spoken out and asked for what you need...I can't help but do another happy dance and knock my tea over again.
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Keep posting and reading...you're not alone. You're incredibly smart to be here now...wow. Thank you...you helped someone on your first post. I'm sure it won't end there.
LA