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I don't know if anyone remembers me, it's been awhile since I've posted here.
H had an A with my sister. they had NC for a year, our relationship got better i thought, then he contacted her last month.
I'm devasted. he wants a divorce. we're 'separated' but still living together cause of the kids. i don't know what to do. do i just let him go? we were high school sweethearts. we've been together everyday for 10 years. i also read if i do go into plan b it would be a good idea to get medicated. i can't financially. i have 3 kids at home i stay with and take of all day long. i just wish OW would die and then I could have my H back. what's wrong with me?

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What went on in your personal recovery during that year of NC?

Why is something wrong with you? Because you want your pain to end? Because you view your WH as weak and need God to take OW out of the picture to for your security?

What did you learn when you were here and WH was in the throes of an A? What did you learn and then forget?

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Have you exposed this affair, charles?


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101



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