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Only one side of the story but chilling tale of what poor or no boundaries get you.

Charlie Sheen Denise Richards Court Declaration


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Doesn't sound like this is going to be a very friendly divorce, does it? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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They reconciled first though before she decided to pursue D - right?

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Gosh, he sounds like my STBXH... only, I go to court next week and WH is the one asking for spousal support and attorney's fees, and WH is the one playing the victim because he's "disabled" (by drugs and alcohol, though he's claiming an old injury that didn't stop him from working before). Last time we were in court, his lawyer convinced the judge I was the greedy one controlling our business and property (to protect it from him!) and he had nothing.

"Nothing" except a house he bought for himself and MOW with the proceeds from the forced sale of our house following that court hearing,which left me scrambling for a place to live with a bunch of animals that belonged to both of us. "Nothing" but the bi-weekly check from me as pre-payment of what I owe him to buy him out of the business while I'm single-handedly running the business that supports both of us and MOW.

And, I never even thought to mention all the porn sites that were on our home computer when I got back into it about two years earlier after he threw me out and moved MOW in. This followed a brief reconciliation attempt soon after DDay. The day after he threw me out, he kicked out his then 17 y.o. niece and 15 y.o. nephew (for whom we were legal guardians) during a "kegger" party he was hosting for his 19 y.o. (underage in our state) son and his son's friends (who were also MOW's friends since she was then only 21) because the kids tried to object to MOW being there!

I guess life is different when you're a celebrity... I must say I'm grateful my story wasn't plastered all over the tabloids... it gained way too much notoriety for my liking as it was with 30 employees witnessing him carrying on with his young, married employee OW at work, and another young, married employee as well, giving drugs to employees, screaming obscenities and threats at me in front of them, etc.

I didn't even enforce the restraining order I'd gotten when we got back into the house until after he kicked in my door for the 3rd time, screaming, throwing things, and terrorizing me, kicked in a door at work, dragged me out of the shower and threw me on the ground threatening to kill me in front of a guy he'd brought along to be a witness to prove he hadn't done anything to me (who became a witness for me). Being the greedy b**** that I am (!), I finally began enforcing the restraining order that kept him away from both me and our business about 3 years ago.

After that, I made numerous, unsuccessful attempts to settle with him and then he retaliated by taking me to court so he could buy a house. Now, almost two years later, I've got a new lawyer (since the last obviously wasn't moving things along!) and I've finally got a court date.

But, since I live in a no fault state, none of this will even come up in court except for his sad story about how I have everything and he's disabled and has nothing and now I need to support him and pay his attorney's fees as well as continue to buy him out of the business. Given the way things went in court last time, I have no reason to believe this argument won't fly.


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Isn't their divorce in CA? At least it is public record. The law is the law but nothing can stop giving the info even if the law is NOT suppose to be influenced by it.

My lawyer told me by CA law, I would owe alimony if the WSH was dumb enough to show up in court and beg for it, so I was NOT to volunteer that info. I didn't. Eventually he found out (OWH's made lots of money so OW shared her knowledge of the CA law). I told the then WS if he was 'smart' enough to show up in court and ask for it, I would give it. Realize after him giving me child support he would get a whopping 100.00. LOL!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Not really surprised by all of this, you guys remember Heidi Fleiss the Hollywood madam.... how his name was like on the top of the list of clients, plus there had been tales of his gambling problems, booze problems, sleeping with the hookers, I would like to know what was she thinking when she married him knowong all of those red flags where there, he has the records to prove it, plus with his rep out there of being a ladies man to boot, to bad he screwed up after having 2 kids with her...

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When I was in Yosemite last week, I saw a TV show called The Dog Whisperer ... it's a dog trainer who makes house calls ... he's good at his job

he helped Denise Richards with her 3 out-of-control cute-but-small-yippie-yappy-dogs

she seems like a sweet person

she was taught how to treat her dogs like dogs and not like children

I say there is something similar about her dogs naughty behavior and Charlie's antics

perhaps there is a Husband Whisperer available who makes house calls???

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Pep,

Funny, I just started watching that very show(did not see the Denise Richards segment) and I was marveling on how insightful the trainer was about the dogs but he was also incredible in sizing up the owners.

I don't know if he has any psychological training but his powers of observation are amazing.

And we are all just animals aren't we?


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Judging by all the women on this forum, I think there are plenty of Husband Whisperers that already do make house calls.

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traicionado,

Likewise, I'm sure. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

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Pep - you forget that DOGS are trainable.....husbands still fart, pick their butts, and grab their crotchs in public. Dogs are smart. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

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Not really suprised by much of anything with the Sheens.

Self-indulent elitist seems to "sum up" Charlie quite well.

Perhaps even the "Poster Child" for "entitlement" as the justification for all his CHOICES.

Go Denise. Go now. Go far. Go fast. Let it all hang out there so the next victim of Charlie can't say they "didn't know."

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Found this link today. It get's pretty graphic

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/0421061sheen1.html?link=rssfeed


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Saw one of those teaseres this morning on one of those gossip shows "Extra", I think, that Denise is having some sort of relationship with Richie Sambora. Didn't he and his wife, Heather Locklear recently split up too? Maybe there are two sides to the story and there is no one that is completely innocent in the Charlie/Denise divorce. No excuses for Charlie though.

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Pep - you forget that DOGS are trainable.....husbands still fart, pick their butts, and grab their crotchs in public. Dogs are smart. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

whoopsie

I just saw this one !!!

I'm telling!

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So all those allegations give her the right to help herself to one of her best girlfriends' husband?????

Heather has been a close friend to Denise, pictures show them together at Denise's baby shower, and Heather has watched Denise's kids for her.

I don't think I believe a lot of Denise's allegations, personally. She's just another husband-snatching ho.


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is this a fact or still a rumour????

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Thanks for the hug BK. Denise and Richie have been photo'd together intimately kissing, holding hands, etc.

As far as when it started, that is a question, but I wouldn't date one of my closest girlfriends' husbands, even after the divorce is final. Kind of cheezy.

And then there is the question of the "mutual friend's emails" that Heather found which prompted her filing.


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