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#1642519 04/25/06 10:59 AM
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Okay, I need some suggestion or some help. I dont even know if this is stupid. Things have been really great between my H and I. Its been almost 10 months since the A and its very far in the back of my mind and havent had any setbacks at all. There is only one problem and I dont know how to solve this and my husband doesnt see a problem with it either, we've talked this over but it is still bugging me. We have a really good sexlife and things have been going great but I have a problem initating (sp) it. I dont feel that he should have to do that all the time. I just need some tips or something, it isnt interfering with our relationship or causing problems but its bothering me. Any ideas would be great....Thanks!


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Call Steve. He might blush but over the phone, who can tell? LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Hey Girl,
I've been wondering how you are doing. It is so good to see your screen name pop up.

It's also good to see things are going good for the two of you.

Here are some books you might find helpful.
The Total Woman- this is an old book but it is a classic.
Light His Fire- another oldie but goodie

take care

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Hey! Its great to see your name too! I've been wondering about you too! Yes, things are great between us. I tried some different things last night after hours of reading online and he loved every minute of it, now i feel a little more better but not complete if that makes sense! I hope things are going good with you as well! I'll keep in touch im so busy Im hardly online anymore!


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Gosh, they had a good thread on this in the EN forum a couple of months ago. You might put a call out there. They had some ideas that would knock his socks off.


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